traveling to Taiwan - need gifts
- rmarisco May 10, 2014 06:59 AM
My students are traveling to Taipei soon, and will need gifts for their (very wealthy) host family. Recommendations for gifts needed please, especially from any familiar with the culture. I am thinking coffee beans and honey so far (been told the family likes coffee). I was also thinking to send some black tea, and high quality incense? All suggestions appreciated! Thanks!
be very, very careful about superstitions regarding gifts -- no knives (signifies severing the relationship), nothing in groups of four (the word for four rhymes with the word for death) but *eight* is a lucky number -- present it with both hands, make sure it's beautifully wrapped -- and it may be refused at first offer to be polite. Keep offering.
It's pretty murky waters -- make very sure you won't inadvertently offend.
Google "Taiwan gift etiquette" for a number of good references.
(a bottle of high-quality alcohol is generally safe)
On that note, gifting incense to Chinese/Taiwanese can be so easily misinterpreted as incense is tied with the dead. So that one should be scratched off the list.
Other no-no's: books, clocks, green hats (my favorite), etc. Here's a good quickie guide:
But good liquor, coffee, chocolates, etc. are always welcome. I don't know if it's some cultural or price difference thing, but Chinese visitors always stock up on Centrum at Costco. Good tea is abundant in Taiwan, so maybe other things would be more exciting.
In Taiwan, a common gift when visiting someone's home would be a set of cakes and pastries from a local bakery / deli. Though that could be tricky if the students aren't near one / don't have time / don't have language skills.
There's good local honey, so I'd probably skip that. Taiwan is a tea producing country, but mainly oolong - finding good black tea, particularly loose tea, is actually not easy. They may not have a coffee grinder at home - it took me a bit of searching to find one myself.
For safe gifts, local candy or chocolate or a bottle of good alcohol would both be good choices. Make sure it's in a nice container -a gift bag for alcohol, wrapped or a gift bag for chocolates.
Alcohol may be a problem for underage students to bring.
Pecans are a North American nut that is becoming sought after in China, IIRC. Perhaps also dried North American fruits that may be hard to come by (blueberries, tart cherries, et cet.)
Really? Times change quickly (or maybe time just flies and it seems quick). It was actually your rec for chocolate that made me think that F.R. are passed around frequently. They seem to be the standard gift.
My mom would go to Costco and get their nuts (and cigarettes but I won't recommend that). These days, the world has gotten so small that it would be surprising if there were much you couldn't get there, except what's most local.