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Thanksgiving recommendations in the Raleigh area?

Erika RollerGirl Oct 10, 2013 02:28 PM

Last year we enjoyed the Thanksgiving buffet-style service at Heron's at The Umstead Hotel but found it a bit pricey at I think $80 per person (?) and perhaps not quite as incredible of an experience as we might have hoped at that price point. It's hard to put my finger on what exactly the issue was as everything was delicious but there was something missing.

Does anyone have any high quality Thanksgiving restaurant suggestions for the Raleigh / Cary area for this year? We would certainly consider Durham and Chapel Hill but would prefer Raleigh or Cary since driving is not our favorite activity. Thanks!

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    rockycat RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 10, 2013 02:58 PM

    Eighty dollars per does sound mighty pricey to me, but I may have an idea what was missing. Probably the drunk uncles, bragging in-laws, the traditional side dish that nobody ever wants to eat, the gluey gravy and cranberry sauce with the ridges still visible, and the nasty fights over politics. In other words, you were missing family.

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      Erika RollerGirl RE: rockycat Oct 10, 2013 03:04 PM

      Hahaha, almost but not quite. ;)

      I'm usually the one who cooks the Thanksgiving feast so I will refrain from throwing myself and my cooking under the bus in that way! (But you did hit the nail on the head regarding stress from relatives, I'll give you that!)

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      Erika RollerGirl RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 16, 2013 03:33 PM

      (I hate to reply to myself but there doesn't seem to be an edit option that I'm aware of, so, sorry!)

      No suggestions, really?! I can't imagine we're the only family in the Triangle not cooking on Thanksgiving.

      Maybe this is a better question to pose then - between Il Palio in Chapel Hill and The Fairview Dining Room at the Washington Duke Inn in Durham, which is better (in general, not specifically at Thanksgiving)? We have not dined at either and recognize that both will more than likely be served buffet-style for this holiday, so I'm sure it's not quite an apples to apples comparison but it would be nice to hear from some local Chowhounds who have eaten at both or either. I've read past posts and checked on Yelp (*gasp!*) and both appear to be well regarded so the choice between the two is a bit tough.

      Oh, I'll throw this out there too, we are also potentially considering Four Square Restaurant in Durham for their 3-course Thanksgiving dinner, however we haven't eaten there in a few years and the last few times we have gone were a bit hit or miss so we're a little hesitant but if anyone has any recent Four Square experiences to share, they would be welcomed too.

      Thanks again!

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        Rory RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 16, 2013 08:28 PM

        All right I just do Chapel Hill as I always go out with my parents for Thanksgiving (I'm a vegetarian..lol) Carolina Inn is consistantly good if you're keen on traditional turkey served buffet style, great atmosphere if you book in the proper dining room, service and food.. I've been to Elaine's (okay), Acme was just plain bad. Never been to Il Palio, so I cannot say.

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          LulusMom RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 17, 2013 05:12 AM

          Most Thanksgivings we've gone out of town (LulusDad is a professor, and it just makes sense to use that time when both Lulu and her dad have time off as travel time). One year we did Carolina Inn, and we'll be doing it again this year. Pretty much the basics of what T-giving entails, and in a nice atmosphere.

          Last time I was at ACME it was *really* bad. I used to be a fan. It must have been over a year now. Any recent reports?

        2. meatn3 RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 17, 2013 04:35 AM

          I have heard good things about Margaux's Thanksgiving service although I have not had it. The price and the menu looks good though!


          I've only had Thanksgiving at one restaurant in the Triangle. Unfortunately it closed a year or so ago...

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            burgeoningfoodie RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 17, 2013 08:25 AM

            I don't know about quality but why not try the Triangle Vegan/Vegetarian Thanksgiving? Are you looking for something traditional?

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              Rory RE: burgeoningfoodie Oct 17, 2013 10:39 PM

              it's very cool, I've been dying to go. I think it's the biggest Veg Thanksgiving in America!

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                burgeoningfoodie RE: Rory Oct 18, 2013 07:10 AM

                Yes the person that heads it up lives in my neighborhood.

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              ksbee RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 17, 2013 08:34 AM

              This might be too far away, but the Granary at Fearrington Village serves a sit-down prix fix Thanksgiving meal.

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                Erika RollerGirl RE: ksbee Oct 18, 2013 12:05 PM

                Fearrington was definitely one of the top considerations but we'd like to stay closer for now. We may do that next year (or I may cook again), depending on the circumstances.

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                lisarosen RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 17, 2013 12:14 PM

                Have you thought about the Angus Barn? I don't eat there otherwise--I don't eat steak, & the Barn is not really my style, but their Thanksgiving is actually fun. Big crowd, good cheer, & homey/tasty traditional turkey day spread. But it does book up quickly, so check now if you're interested.

                1. romansperson RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 18, 2013 01:19 PM

                  I've been to Il Palio for special occasions before, but not Thanksgiving. I've always enjoyed it very much.

                  I've been to Carolina Inn for both Thanksgiving and Christmas and it was just OK - I like their regular dining room service much better than the holiday spreads.

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                    HitBullWinSteak RE: Erika RollerGirl Oct 27, 2013 09:10 AM

                    We did the Thanksgiving buffet at the Washington Duke Inn in Durham last year. It was SPECTACULAR.

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                      Erika RollerGirl RE: HitBullWinSteak Oct 27, 2013 04:28 PM

                      Thank you! I think this is the one we are going to this year. We are looking forward to it!

                    2. meatn3 RE: Erika RollerGirl Nov 28, 2013 05:48 PM

                      Please share your thoughts about where ever you ended up.
                      Hope it was good!

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                        Erika RollerGirl RE: meatn3 Nov 29, 2013 05:29 AM

                        We went to The Fairview Dining Room at the Washington Duke Inn in Durham for our Thanksgiving and enjoyed our meal overall however I'm not sure that we will be making this our new Thanksgiving venue of choice in the future.

                        The service was extremely amicable, the buffets well stocked, the food was well prepared and for the most part pretty traditional other than a few items which seemed a bit more Southwestern than normal (cumin roasted beets, roasted poblano chowder, and a few other cumin-filled dishes). The only complaints regarding the food would be that some items (especially the stuffing) were extremely over salted and some of the desserts were insanely overly sweet (and I'm no slouch when it comes to enjoying desserts or salt for that matter).

                        Now that I have something to compare Heron's to, I think my group was in agreement that Heron's was of higher quality food (and the price was only $10 higher) but the atmosphere was perhaps not as festive as we would have liked. I think part of it comes down to the fact that Thanksgiving is a holiday perhaps best enjoyed in the company of one's home rather than a corporate affair experienced at a restaurant.

                        I'm not sure what next year will bring for us but if we do again decide to eat out, we may take the completely unconventional route and hit up Captain J's (or someplace similar for Chinese instead, (at least if I have any say in the matter!)

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                          Rory RE: Erika RollerGirl Nov 29, 2013 03:56 PM

                          Our Thanksgiving plans fell through & instead we had it at home but ordered everything from Weaver St. Market. We'd ordered the cooked turkey breast and full vegetarian dinner (sides which serve 5-6) and everyone loved it. The turkey was extremely moist, the sweet potatoes delicious and not overly sweet, the roasted vegetables firm & tasty, the stuffing delicious, cranberry sauce amazing & everyone preferred the vegetarian gravy which really was first class. I was initially very sceptical but I recommend this to anyone who doesn't want to cook but wants the full meal. It was great!

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