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chito32 Sep 24, 2013 12:43 AM

Hi, my youngest daughter is turning 21 and I'm looking for a place that: 1) she can't afford (she's a student) and 2) has at lot of cool 20 somethings running around so she doesn't feel like Dad has dragged her and her siblings out to someplace he would go. Pre-reqs: really good food and a full bar (she needs a 21st bday cocktail after all). Thanks

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    lobot Sep 24, 2013 10:22 AM

    Someplace like Blowfish Sushi would be good, but may be more of a professional, after-work vibe. However, the food and cocktails are delicious. Some hip place in the Mission would be good too, like Kiji Japanese Restaurant or Delfina.

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    1. re: lobot
      mariacarmen Sep 24, 2013 11:57 PM

      do you go to Blowfish regularly, recently? i haven't been in years because the last time i went the food was awful - as in fish was soggy, not fresh, and blah. used to be a favorite.

      i would agree with Delfina.

      to the OP, maybe take your daughter up to El Techo over Lolinda for her first official cocktail (very happening place at the moment with the kids) and a great view of the City (you'd better get their early enough, with the days already starting to lengthen), and then head back downstairs to either Lolinda or Foreign Cinema. Lolinda in particular seems to have a young vibe, and great food, FC is fun if you get a seat on the patio with the movie playing in the background. or you could really grunge it up and eat dinner in FC's next door bar, Laszlo - it looks like a divey bar but you can get the full FC menu.

      http://sf.eater.com/archives/2013/05/14/el_techo_de_lolinda_a_glorious_mission_rooftop.php

      http://lolindasf.com/

      http://www.foreigncinema.com/

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      cubicles Sep 24, 2013 10:52 AM

      AQ

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        Dustin_E Sep 24, 2013 11:00 AM

        i think most decently nice places are either going to have a professional / after work vibe, or an older crowd.

        yakiniQ in japantown has a pretty lively and young (mostly asian) crowd

        i'm thinking marina / cow hollow for young. maybe a16? they have lots of wine choices.

        1. hhc Sep 24, 2013 08:03 PM

          What about Nopa? Good food & full bar.

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            Dustin_E Sep 25, 2013 07:46 AM

            nopa could be good. i think the crowd is a lot more 30 or 40-something than 20-something, but it is a lively, fun place.

            osha thai is not a favorite of mine, but for whatever reason i hear of a lot of young people celebrating birthdays there.

            the thing is, the nicer the place, the less likely there are going to be people in their early 20s.

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            Dustin_E Sep 25, 2013 10:09 AM

            you might also consider comal in berkeley.

            it isn't in sf, but it is near berkeley campus, so has a bit of a young vibe that lets it be upscale without feeling as corporate / after-workey as a lot of places in sf.

            they've also got a great bar.

            1. smatbrat Sep 25, 2013 05:10 PM

              Nihon
              Delfina
              La Mar
              Berreta
              Lolinda
              Beatlenut----no idea how it is now that Chef Alex left
              Nojo
              Roka Akor
              Gitane

              I asked my 22 year old cousin(girl) and she rattled off these places!

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