60th anniversary dinner
I would highly recommend Il Giardinello in Toms River. Their food is consistently excellent. It's a BYOB if that matters to you. Just check the great reviews on yelp and google.
Il Giardinello Ristorante
1232 New Jersey 166, Toms River
Depending on how many people they do have part of their restaurant one step up with half wall and glass. Maybe you can have your dinner up there again depending on the number of people.