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Apr 30, 2013 04:12 PM

Graduation dinner - can't get into French Laundry, Manresa, or Meadowood

Dinner for 2. Those were my preferences but they don't have openings for the weekend we want in mid-may.

Where would you go? Saison? Benu? Coi was in the recent top 50 list. Haven't been to any of them yet. Having trouble... really wanted something fresh/california focused like the three in the title. Didn't really want to go somewhere in SF or the East Bay. Happy to go somewhere that isn't 200 a head also if it's great, fresh, innovative, etc. Willing to do a big tasting menu but trying to avoid a really heavy meal. Even would be willing to drive up to 2-4 hours (we are in Oak) and stay the night somewhere up towards Mendocino or down the coast...

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  1. the food at saison is approx. as good as that at TFL or Manresa. But if you don't want somewhere in SF or the east bay, just don't go to to one here -- there are tons of good restaurants north or south.

    you could go south and stay at the bernardus lodge for a night. i don't know if their restaurant marinus is "innovative", but it is good and fresh. (or at least was when i went a few years ago.) the lodge looked nice, but we only ate.

    aubergine in carmel is supposed to be good.

    the restaurant at the post ranch inn is just okay, but the view is fantastic -- i recommend a couple glasses of wine there in the afternoon.

    farm @ carneros inn was good -- but it was a catered menu that i tried, so not sure it was representative.

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    1. re: Dustin_E

      Awesome, thanks for the tip and pointing me towards these places.

    2. Commis might work except it's in the EB. The chef worked at Manresa...but check recent reviews, things supposedly changed a bit. Also very minimalistic.

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      1. re: ML8000

        Love Commis, but just been recently. I think it's still one of the top fine dining meals I've had and at a ridiculous price point.

      2. How about Japanese kaiseki?
        This place in Saratoga is high on my list of places to try, but I have yet to see reports of their kaiseki option. If anybody knows, chime in?

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        1. re: pauliface

          Actually Wakuriya has been on my list for a really long time, now that you mention it. Which is better?

          1. re: hungree

            Wakuriya is fantastic. I was there once. They are, though, hard to reserve as they book up quickly.
            I have not yet been to hachi-ju-hachi so I cannot compare.

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            This is the closest to the old La Bourgogne I have found in the four decades since LaB closed. Updated for CA tastes today, but with that wonderful French classic tradition. We love La Folie, but we honestly think Etoile is better.