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Nov 17, 2012 12:12 PM

Critique my Thanksgiving menu

for 8 people....and want to have plenty of healthy options as well but want to cut down some of the apps especially down to about 2 or 3..

Charcuterie & Cheese Board: Point Reyes Blue, Truffled Goat, Aged Gouda, Proscuitto Parma, Salami, Italian bread sticks, crackers, bread & hot pepper jelly & spicy mustard & fig jam

Relish Tray- Assortment of marinated olives, pickles (dill & the mini sweet ones)

raw crudités w a homemade ranch dressing and another basic olive oil and herb dressing

Chilled Oysters with Apple-Ginger Mignonette

Smoked Alaskan salmon & crème fraiche served on cucumber slices and black pepper kettle chips

deviled eggs with bacon

spinach artichoke dip & bread

Frisee, Pomegranate Seeds, Toasted Pecans & shallot vinagrette

Biscuits, Bread & Butter

Roasted Turkey

Apple cider gravy

Cornbread stuffing

Lemony garlic broccoli rabe

Mashed Potatoes 2 ways: Black truffle or traditional yukon gold

Cranberry & blood orange sauce
(no additional sugar added, it's just cranberries cooked in fresh OJ so a bit tart but good)
Sweet potato casserole with brown sugar and marshmallows
(childhood favorite and non-negotiable to take off menu)
Roasted root vegetables with olive oil, sea salt and a tiny touch of maple
Roasted brussels sprouts in olive oil and a touch of balsamic

Sparkling apple cider, seasonal beers, iced tea, wine, mulled spiced wine, coffee, tea, cans of soda


Cranberry Sorbet
,Vanilla Ice Cream,
Pumpkin Ice cream (all of these purchased from whole foods)

Pumpkin Cheese Cake (purchased from a bakery)

Apple Pie

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  1. To my mind this is way too many things . Too much food for eight. I would start by eliminating the sweet potatoes with marshmallows, just have plain baked sweets if you need them and I would have one kind of mashed pots. Corn too? not seasonal and yet another carb.

    I also would not make so many apps. You don't need two salads, for instance, and I find deviled eggs a very rich starter for such a rich meal.

    But you may be into way more excess than we like.

    12 Replies
    1. re: magiesmom

      Hi Magies mom, thanks for the feedback.

      Ok- I cut the corn and the fennel salad to start.

      The sweet potato casserole won't be cut b/c it's my favorite and something I have every year just once a year. I am making a smaller dish of this since I am serving the roasted root veggies and brussels sprouts.

      Which apps sound the least appealing that I should cut first?

      I can see the apps being a little excessive, but most are very simple and for the most part pretty light. The dinner mention doesn't seem too excessive to me though.. I really want truffled potatoes but understand that many people want standard, so I am offering both but it won't add more than 5 minutes to cooking time. I tried to keep my menu pretty simple *in terms of actual cooking, prep and ingredients

      1. re: magiesmom

        I agree. When you go to that much trouble, your guests can feel uncomfortable-- that they've been a burden. Def cut out most of the apps -- will ruin appetites!; cut out the sweet potatoes, & make just 2-3 desserts max.

        1. re: thymeoz

          What about the menu would make someone uncomfortable? I'm totally confused by these responses.

          The icecream and sorbet are prepurchased..The cheesecake is coming from a bakery
          The apple pie will be homemade
          Cookies will be picked up from whole foods

          1. re: allthatglitters

            Allthatglitters, for starters, some people feel uncomfortable if they do not have room to try all of the food - they don't want to insult the hostess who has cooked for them, by having to refuse many of the dishes because they've gotten full trying the seven appetizers. You might want to go look at this thread on Thanksgiving appetizers which is also active today: - comments such as "Every year we make too many appetizers and everyone fills up on those" and " I love making appetizers, but if there's anything too much, people complain that they ate too much of those, so they have no room for dinner."

            Second, I think thymoz makes a good point - when you slave over a meal, some people might feel beholden. Others might feel you would expect something similar when you go to their house - and they are not willing or able to go to such an effort. We have some friends who we used to trade dining with, but we had to stop because after I went back to work, I simply am too tired to put on elaborate meals such as she makes. She would serve us tarts handmade with blueberries she had grown herself, laced with homemade cassis no doubt - it was just too much, when I could not reciprocate.

            1. re: allthatglitters

              Since the day is so very food-focused, I try to limit my choices to things I don't get every day, like the stuffing and turkey. "Prepurchased" items, IMHO, are expendable and don't really add much to your festive table--those would be the things I'd delete, as well as cutting down on the apps. Just my 2 cents.

          2. re: magiesmom

            Agreed - you should trim this menu, then trim some more. You don't want people filling up on apps. Limit the pre-meal offerings to crudites with a ranch and a mustard dip. Scrap the salad entirely but have the remaining raw veg tray on the dinner table.

            No yams in the root veg unless you scrap the sweet potato. Get rid of the corn or the broccoli rabe or the brussels sprouts. Root veg and a simpler veg like green beans or glazed carrots is plenty. One mashed potato. Not every item needs special sauce or herbing. Let some of your dishes have clean flavors. You want healthy options - roast or mashed sweet potatoes without sugar or marshmallow. They are plenty sweet just plain.

            Drinks: sparkling cider and wine. Coffee and tea with dessert. Dessert: apple pie, vanilla ice cream, and for the health-conscious, cranberry sorbet. MAYBE pumpkin cheesecake but pumpkin pie would be better, since it's not as heavy. Those who want to gild the lily can have either pie a la mode, and I'd suggest caramel sauce as an optional topping.

            1. re: greygarious

              Hi Grey!

              Thanks for the feedback, I will scrap the yams in the root veggies..

              Corn is gone.

              I really want to do truffle potatoes (for myself!) but I do not want to force that on guests so want to do the plain. That's the selfish reason I am having two.

              For the roasted root veggies I should scrap the idea of tossing in a little maple syrup and just do EVOO and sea salt?

              I *hate* cooked carrots and it's one of the few veggies I dislike so it won't be making an appearance on the menu.

              1. re: allthatglitters

                I was not a fan of cooked carrots either until I started doing them julienned and tossing them in butter/peanut oil to cook lightly and then tossing them in plenty of freshly grated ginger and a small amount of honey. I leave them still a little crunchy. Your menu certainly sounds bountiful. I'd never make it past appetizers and, assuming there is some, a few glasses of Pinot Noir. I love the cranberry an blood orange relish.

                1. re: allthatglitters

                  You are cooking for 7 other people, not just yourself. If there are children, chances are they wouldn't touch broccoli rabe or Brussels sprouts or salad and perhaps not roasted roots either. Carrots and corn are, unfortunately, the only vegetables many children will accept. At least include some baby carrots in your root veg that the kiddies can pick out.

                  1. re: greygarious

                    "At least include some baby carrots in your root veg that the kiddies can pick out."

                    while I agree that the menu needs to be trimmed, I strongly disagree with this statement. My 4.5 year old granddaughter would eat mostly the salad from the menu above, along with turkey and stuffing. She isn't a big potatoes gal for some reason. My experience is that the idea that kids won't eat green is to some extent a self fulfilling prophecy. The OP could trim half the menu and there would still be plenty that kids would happily eat.

                    For the OP: no maple in the veggies, and of the apps that are left I'd definitely cut the salmon and the spinach dip. Maybe the oysters also, also though I love oysters. A cheese plate is ok if there will be lots of time between when guests arrive and dinner is served, but cut the salami,

                    1. re: susancinsf

                      " the idea that kids won't eat green is to some extent a self fulfilling prophecy."

                      Agreed. My kids, and a lot of kids that I know, eat brussel sprouts, broccoli rabe or broccolini, and roasted root veggies. I think the pendulum is swinging back to center and many parents, particularly CHers, are raising veggie-eatin' kids. :)

                      1. re: lynnlato

                        I agree. And it is so maddening to see a child ask about a good food and then hear the parent reply, "you wouldn't like that".

            2. Your menu sounds a lot like mine and I'm having 20. I would definitely cut the deviled eggs, spinach-artichoke dip and likely, the salmon. Charcuterie with some cornichons, oysters & crudite would be perfect for apps.

              I'd also bag the biscuits. You have a beautiful menu and there's no need for filler. Other than that, I think it looks great!

              3 Replies
              1. re: Christina D

                Thanks Christina! I definitely do want to cut some apps and appreciate you letting me know which ones you would cut.. :)

                1. re: allthatglitters

                  As a person who gobbles cheese and gets too full for the next course I would ditch the cheese and the devilled eggs too- another tempting item it's hard to eat just one of.

                2. re: Christina D

                  I agree, I would cut the same apps as you've suggested. And I agree w/ gregarious' suggestion to have a veg or two that is simply prepared - green beans and/or the brussel sprouts (as you've described them is perfect). And keep desserts to a minimum - apple pie, cheesecake and that is plenty.

                  Well done allthatglitters - you're going to have a lovely holiday with full bellies and happy guests. :)

                  1. re: MGZ

                    I don't drink soda but it's one of those things that I like to have to offer guests. I don't think Thanksgiving in the time to impose personal health preferences on others :)

                  2. I have to agree with magiesmom. This seems like the work of three hostesses, not one. Your guests will enjoy at least a salad, turkey and potatoes - everything else is nice but is not absolutely necessary because they will already be happy, so pare it down somewhat and save yourself stress.

                    I think my guests generally have a better time if I am sitting and enjoying and talking with them, rather than constantly setting out and removing dishes. You might want to keep it to two or three set-out apps (before going to table), and two or three appetizers at the table (all of your ideas are lovely but if I had to pick three, I'd say salad, bread(s), and the oysters or salmon).
                    The dinner menu also seems lovely. To streamline it -
                    - I don't think you need broccoli rabe AND brussel sprouts; you also have a salad, so just select one cooked green vegetable.
                    - you won't need two kinds of mashed potatoes AND root vegetables AND sweet potatoes AND corn. I suggest selecting one or two. You're already having sweet potatoes (I agree; tradition!) - you don't need numerous savory starches - just one. Again, just 8 people...
                    - The desserts also seem like a lot to prepare, unless you are purchasing most. And after a big dinner, including sweet potatoes (which is really a dessert - I love it too), you may find yourself with a lot of leftover dessert. I'd say make the pie, make or buy the cheesecake or one kind of cookie, buy one of the three ice cream/sorbet choices. Seriously, given just apple pie and vanilla ice cream, who would not find a choice they enjoy? The rest, as they say, is gravy. ;-)

                    1. the charcuterie and cheese can be very rich. it's expensive and i never like serving lots of cheese pre-meal. too filling, easy to over-eat and dulls the palate.

                      i like the relish tray because it's retro.

                      crudites, crudites, crudites -- yawn. it's at so many parties.

                      both the salmon and spinach dip involve dairy too.

                      i would just have the relish tray out, and serve oysters to start. nix all the other starters.

                      as long as the salad has a very sharp vinaigrette, i think it's a good idea to wake up everybody's appetite.

                      biscuits are not needed. as much as i love it, i'd skip the broccoli rabe and just keep the brussels. if you MUST have sweet potatoes and 2 kinds of mashed, have mercy on everybody and skip all the other starchy sides.

                      i'd skip the pumpkin ice cream too.

                      your dishes all look lovely!!! but as much i love to cook, and as much as i always go overboard, i am having 30 people and making fewer dishes than you are planning. :)