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Care package for a Marine

My 22 year old nephew is in the Marines and currently deployed to Afghanistan. I would like to send him and his friends a care package or two. It can take anywhere from one week to a month for them to receive packages.

I want to send home made cookies. Choco chip, cookie bars, brownies and oatmeal raisin.(These are his favorites) I also thought I would buy some trail mixes from Trader Joe.

What is the best way for me to pack the cookies so that will be somewhat fresh when they arrive? Would you use freezer bags? Would you use plastic containers? Would you put bread in the containers to keep moisture in the cookies or will the bread get moldy?

Or should I just buy name brand cookies from Costco?


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      1. DivaMari, you may want to re-think the chocolate chip. It's a hot ride over there, and they most likely be a gooey mess by the time your nephew gets them. I'd make crunchy cookies, rather than moist, to avoid the mold issue. Think about what cookies you'd want to eat after you'd left them in a steel box in your sunny back yard for a month, then make that. Oatmeal raisin sounds good, or shortbread. Or a chocolate crackle cookie.
        I'd love to hear a follow up on this. My stepson is in Afghanistan, too, and if this works for you, I may try it too!

        1. In addition to the cookies I would also load up the care package with beef jerky. My Army MP nephew really appreciated that when he was deployed in Iraq.

          1. I've put together care packages for a cousin who has so far done 3 tours in Afghanistan and in Iraq. His requests for summer were pop tarts and single serve drink mix packets (Gatorade, crystal light). He was usually in pretty remote places that were not well supplied, so he also always wanted unscented lotion, socks, sheets, paper/pencils for drawing, and magazines.

            A lot of sites warn against sending homemade treats - this is mostly to protect personnel receiving packages from volunteers/strangers. Your nephew should be able to trust things you send directly to him, so homemade is OK. If you do ever decide to send a package to someone other than your nephew, store bought is best.

            Do not send anything chocolate this time of year. The chocolate will melt. Same goes for most high-fat candies (white chocolate, peanut butter). Similarly, if he is still overseas during the winter months, avoid sending things that will expand when frozen then leak when liquid again.

            Pack the cookies in ziploc bags with wax paper between each layer, and squeeze out as much air as possible (or use a vacuum sealer if you can). Pack the box so there is some cushion around the cookies. The USPS flat rate boxes are great - you pay the same flat rate as a domestic shipment, doesn't matter how much the package weighs.

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            1. re: mpjmph

              Are sending M&m's ok? They were design in the 40's to withstand the heat of hot climates during World War 2.

              1. re: syrup09

                M&m's are fine if packed well. The chocolate still melts, and they get messy if crushed while melted.

              2. re: mpjmph

                I agree with mpjmph and have to add a few things.

                If you're sending food, go for the pre-packaged stuff in individual servings. Like goldfish, trail mixes, cookies etc. If possible, pack the smaller packages into gallon size zip top bags so they can reuse the zip top bags.

                Personal sized packages of wipes (baby, moist towelettes...you get my drift) are nice too so they can carry them for a quick clean up/cool off.

                Books and magazines are always welcome. Pack local newspapers as your stuffer matieral so they can keep up on local news.

                1. re: mpjmph

                  My brother just got home from a year in Afghanistan and your advice is spot on.

                2. Hot Sauce...Energy Bars...Jerky...single bottles hand sanitizer...Sun Block unscented...
                  Popped Popcorn makes a great excelsior for packages.....
                  Summer Sausages..Slim Jims...

                  1. Hot sauce can help with bland food. I would send him some packets of hot sauce from Taco Bell. Some BBQ sauce packets from McDonald's. Some mustard and ketchup packets. If he doesn't use them he can "trade" with some friends. As some have said..... crunchy cookies, not the moist oily ones.

                    Commercial made granola bars in packets
                    Also voting for high quality beef jerky

                    1. I'm not sure if this is still the case, but when my nephew was based in Afghanistan a few years ago, you could go to the post office and request a military kit, which they will provide and ship free of charge. Not sure if this is still the case, as a brief search of the usps site did not reveal any details, but this link provides some (albeit old) info. http://forums.military.com/eve/forums... It may be worth asking\calling for info.

                      My nephew was stationed at Bagram AFB, so his experience probably isn't the same as others stationed out in the field, as I was always amazed at how quickly he got his packages. I made peanut butter cookies and oatmeal cookies and brownies, stored in glad storage boxes separated by wax paper. He and his buddies also always appreciated magazines (sports and auto) and books. They also like pretzels, popcorn (again, on a base, so access to a microwave), jerky, trail mix and powdered drink mixes. And yes, using local papers to fill the box is a great two-fold use.

                      Also, Hickory Farms ships some items free to APOs and they were a BIG hit with the guys.

                      When travelling we were struck by how generous local merchants were. We were in a retro candy store in Virginia and thought it would be nice to send him a package from there. Lots of old-fashioned (not chocolate) candies and gums (oh yeah, they also LOVED getting gum). When we gave the merchant the address to ship to, she went around the store adding another dozen or so items "on her" and took care of shipping.

                      When we were in a pretzel store in Lititz, PA, we ordered a pretzel sampler and again, when they saw it was going to Afghanistan, they upgraded the order.

                      Whatever you send, be assured it will be greatly appreciated by your nephew and his buddies. Especially the homemade stuff which is apparently scarfed up in a matter of minutes.

                      1. I can't speak to the home made cookies, but this is what I sent to my brother when he was in Afghanistan last year. Everything arrived in good shape:
                        canned chocolate frosting (he loves it straight from the can, I don't even ask why)
                        gummi candies (you can get gummi soldiers and planes, these were a big hit)
                        sweet tarts
                        crunchy granola bars

                        It took 3 weeks for the pacakge to get to him, so even thought I would have loved to send him home made cookies and brownies, I'm sure they would not have arrived in the best shape.The canned frosting took care of his chocolate craving and survived the trip.

                        The item he most loved? The baby wipes. He wasn't able to shower every day so they came in handy. And I'm sure he needed them to wipe all the yucky chocolate frosting off his fingers.

                        I hope your nephew and his fellow soldiers all return home safely :)

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                        1. re: iluvcookies

                          I know this isn't on topic so much, and I promise I'm not trying to pick on you, it's a really common mistake, but DivaMari's nephew is a marine, not a soldier. My husband was an airman, not a soldier. People in the Army are soldiers.

                          DivaMari, IME, while homemade cookies seem nice, they never got to my husband 1. in tact or 2. still good. He only wanted practical things, he didn't want homemade because of the uncertainty of how long a package would take to arrive. Being deployed and receiving a box of moldy food is a big disappointment. I recommend packaged, honestly.

                          Whatever you do decide, pack it well. Some of those packages get really beat up once the military post office gets them.

                          1. re: eastofnevada

                            As Ben Whitledge said in "No Time For Sergeants" "...airman..airman , like something out of a goldang comic book.."

                            1. re: eastofnevada

                              HA! You know, my Army Sergeant brother would probably laugh at this because I should know the difference (he loves to point it out to people). But the sentiment is there, of course. To have them home safely.

                          2. I remember my family packing a large care package for my cousin who was a combat engineer in Vietnam. I remember asking him about the package a few years later (as a young kid I enthusiastically chose stuff to go into it). He said he doesn't remember getting it and that an REMF probably stole it.

                            1. A dear friend of mine spent time overseas in Afghanistan as well and a lot of the posters have offered many suggestions that he echoed during his stay. Another thing he always enjoyed were lemon drops to help stave off some of the dryness of being in such an arid climate, plus the local children were great fans of them. One thing he also craved - albeit not a food item - was the smell of fresh mowed grass. So we sealed/labeled some of that up in one of his last care packages before he came home, safely. Many thanks to your Nephew for his service.

                              1. Can I suggest adding some boxes of Emergen-C packets? They're not that expensive if you buy online or on sale at The Vitamin Shoppe, the boxes are good padding for your cookies, the packets are sturdy, they keep a long while, and they're a huge help when you feel under the weather.

                                1. Hi DivaMari -- first please thank your nephew for his service. The sacrifices these men and woman make (and their families) are so numerous - I'm very grateful.

                                  Definitely go with the lemon drops, beef jerky along with the other goodies you decide to make. My packages that I sent to my Marine (an ex but dear old boyfriend), I also included Power Bars - which keep well - and give good protein when they're on the move. They're suprisingly good too - he liked the chocolate chip cookie dough flavor.

                                  A little off topic - but you might want to include a few issues of Maxim magazine. :) They're serving bravely, but they're still young men after all! Besides - they'll read it for the articles. ;)

                                  1. About 10 years ago one of my employees asked if I would allow a "Care Package" box be put in the lobby for a month. I had no objection to it and the next day there was a large storage type tub in the lobby with sign saying something to the extent;

                                    "Donations accepted for Soldier Care Packages"

                                    The tub stayed there and got rather full by the end of the month. People left toothpaste, cross word puzzle books, various toiletries etc. The morning the tub was suppose to be collected I stopped at a 7-11 and bought a few cartons of cigarettes and every edition of Playboy they had, I know what soldiers really want! I placed them in the tub and went to my office.

                                    The employee who asked for permission to place the tub intercom me in my office and said the people were here to collect the tub and wanted to thank me for participating and allowing my office as a donation drop.

                                    You should have seen my face when I went downstairs into my lobby to see a girl scout troop standing there!! NOBODY ever told me this was a girl scout sponsored program, I wanted to die.

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                                    1. re: jrvedivici

                                      LOL!! That's great! No worries, jrvedivici - I'm sure their troop leader sheltered them a bit from the tub's randy contents!

                                    2. My nephew was in the mrines and loved when I sent peanut butter and jelly. He also loved current newspapers, lemon drops, snickers, and packaged tuna.
                                      However what he like best of all was socks and foot powder. Apparently athletes foot is a big problem for soldiers.
                                      Please thank him for his service to his country. We all appreciate him.


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                                      1. re: Jvfndal

                                        Don't forget that a Marine is not a soldier.

                                      2. Thank you all for your post. The first post was 18 months ago. He arrived home safely. Nephew just left in October for another tour.
                                        I have send several boxes including many of the items you suggested. I did buy Maxim but not Playboy.

                                        Merry Christmas

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                                        1. re: DivaMari

                                          You have to be careful about the magazines you send over there. Maxim may be considered a banned mag, based on religion. Playboy is a no-no. VS catalogs are pushing the envelope but are generally accepted. It's tough on the young men.

                                          1. re: Dee S

                                            sugar free gum
                                            moist towlettes
                                            (yeah, ok, i'm a dentist)
                                            single serving instant drinks
                                            beef jerky!!!!!
                                            i sent all the dvds i no longer watch (the troops watch them on their laptops and portable cvc players and pass them around)