We went to Colbeh for supper last week. Everything was fine except the background music was unbearably loud. Maybe because it was supper, not lunch, and a "holiday" week, but I'd check it out before going.
Wolf & Lamb is quiet enough, at least for Manhattanites. Abigael's can be funereal. Abigael's would be a good choice if you want your table seated away from others. They are pretty accommodating about this.