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Lunch at Ledoyen

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buddhaz12 Jul 14, 2011 02:42 PM

See pictures and read at http://thecollegecritics.com/2011/07/...

Dining in a foreign country can be daunting for even the most adventurous eaters at home. It can be especially unsettling when the diner does not speak the language, happens to be eating alone, and this country happens to be France. I cannot judge definitively on the truth of the stereotypical rude French waiter; I encountered both the rude and the accommodating during my stay in Paris. Yet, at Ledoyen I found neither of these reactions, instead I was met with subtle bewilderment.

When I walked into the atrium of Ledoyen, I met a youngish man standing behind a desk, who asked me something in rapid French. I stared blankly back at him, trying to communicate using a mangled rendition of “je ne parle pas francais” (I don’t speak French). Whether he actually understood me or simply judged my abysmal French skills is unclear. In any case, he spoke reasonable English, and asked, “Can I help you?”

I explained that I had a reservation, and gave my name. He flipped through his book, scanning the names. I spelled out my last name. After a few inquiries about when I had made my reservation, he closed the book, looked at me quizzically, and spoke some incomprehensible French to another men standing behind him. Bracing myself to be thrown out of this opulent foyer where clearly a young American man had no place, I ran through a few possibilities. Perhaps they had lost my reservation, or maybe I had just dreamed about making one. Maybe my blue blazer and khakis violated their dress code and now they would take me by the scruff of the neck and throw me out onto the street!

Instead, the man led me upstairs to a table that could have seated four. Now I do not normally mind eating alone, but that moderately sized table seemed a vast expanse separating me from the waiters and the other diners. After a while the sommelier walked up and spoke to me in French once again. I shook my head and asked in English if he could make recommendations. He let out a small sigh, restraining himself nobly; it was the sigh of a man who wanted to roll his eyes but suddenly remembered his establishment’s three Michelin stars. He decided to just bring me something, mumbling the name, again in French.

Once the food started coming I felt more in my element. The lunch prix fixe began with a watermelon gelee with cherry tomato that possessed delicate sweetness on a texturally rich bed of gelee, vegetable matter, and nuts.

Next came gnocchi with chanterelle mushrooms and white truffle. These gnocchi burst in my mouth, truly the lightest gnocchi I have ever had. They actually floated, ethereally disappearing in moments while leaving the earthy taste of truffle behind.

The main course was Gratin de Sole, with capers, lemon and clams. It paired well with the gnocchi, carrying through the lightness, but stayed true to the rich, buttery tradition of French cuisine. Despite the feathery sole, the clams stole the show. Sweet and salty combined with the tangy funk of the bivalve mollusk, pushing the clams to forefront of the dish. The clams claimed the soul of the “plat,” not the sole.

Last, I was served a pyramid dessert. Crème brulee at the base, covered in a strawberry compote, on which rested a coriander sorbet with a sheet of strawberry gelatin draped over the construction like a fine piece of cloth. The light spice of the coriander held its own against the richness of the caramelized crème brûlée. Unfortunately the gel sheet was a little too tough to cut through, so I ended up smushing the pyramid in the first attempt to cut through it.

With coffee and salted caramels to end the meal, I rested comfortably. At the end of the meal, upon receiving the bill, the waiter asked if I would like to pay in euros or US dollars. I told him it did not matter to me and asked why. He replied with a barely perceptible smile that perhaps it would be more exotic for me to pay in euros.

Throughout the meal I had noticed that the wait staff looked over to my table a little more often than normal with curious expressions on their faces, as if they were try to decipher the mystery of my presence in their restaurant. I only noticed this subtle anomaly occasionally during the meal due to the wonder of the food in front of me. Their curiosity was understandable, clearly the youngest patron by at least twenty years, and the only one in the dining room eating alone, they naturally wanted to study this oddity, without breaking the boundaries of politeness of course. As I reflected over my second cup of coffee, coming up to two hours for the meal, I intuited that under this air of curious confusion lay a faint attitude of disapproval. As if they were merely tolerating the presence of a young American dining alone who spoke no French. Asking for recommendations or explanations would merit polite, informative answers; nevertheless I sensed a brusqueness that went beyond the impeccable efficiency of Ledoyen.

Even unconsciously, the staff of Ledoyen had judged me as a curiosity, an outlier, an outsider to their world of international businessmen and high society Parisians. One does not go to Ledoyen in Paris to find down home southern hospitality. One goes to enter into another world, a world of refinement and generations of tradition. Yet, I found myself looking into that world through a veil, labeled a tourist, assumed unable to understand the experience.

I cannot judge Ledoyen for their judgment of me, as I cannot say a restaurant of similar caliber in the United States would do any differently. I can only reflect on and observe what I felt under the watchful eyes of those French culinary masters, and that is an experience, neither positive nor negative, in itself. Upon my visit to Ledoyen, I experienced amazing food that redefined my idea of what gnocchi could be. I also experienced three Michelin star service, which masked a curiosity flavored with bewilderment. That curiosity, in turn, shrouded a third layer of subtle judgment, not of my character or intelligence, but of my identity as a young American, a tourist, and an outsider.

Ledoyen

1, Avenue Dutuit, Paris

01 53 05 10 01

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    Ptipois Aug 10, 2011 12:19 AM

    Busk is right, three-star service in some places can be a little weird, and reading (and re-reading) your report it seems possible to me that you overreacted to a type of regular aloofness displayed by the Ledoyen service, which does not have the reputation of being the warmest or most fun in Paris anyway.

    Eating alone in a grand place can be a bit difficult, with a mixture of anxiety and boredom, and I know that feeling, which puts you at risk of amplifying every little detail and aware of just how many crumbs are left on your tablecloth before a waiter comes to get them with his scraper. Maybe they were really on the stiff and weird side and your perception of that was a bit exaggerated.

    And it can't have anything to do with being "an American tourist", just think that they see thousands of those every year.

    The dress argument does not hold IMO. As long as you had a blazer, and not wearing Crocs with that blazer, you're fine. The dress code question is much overstated regarding France in general. Now when you dine "haute", look around you, you really have to count the ties and the ones you see are probably the result of dress code at work, not at restaurants.

    Unless it is a known VIP or a regular, single diners can easily raise some suspicion among restaurant waiters. Maybe the fact that you were alone attracted attention. Were you taking notes? Even just a few at times? Perhaps they thought you were a reviewer.

    1. boredough Jul 17, 2011 12:23 AM

      All too many years ago on our honeymoon (we were in our early 20's), my husband & I decided to have a special dinner at Ledoyen. Having both just started to work, we did not have much money, but felt the occasion warranted such a meal. To our surprise & horror, we were both given "guest" menus, that is, menus without prices, and too shy to mention it to the waiter. (After all,"if you can't afford it, you shouldn't go.") We were so anxious throughout the meal that we wouldn't be able to afford it, that I'm not sure we enjoyed it as much as we should have. Now, reading about buddhaz12's experience, I wonder if the blunder wasn't done on purpose, just to intimidate 2 young Americans tourists.

      1. law_doc89 Jul 15, 2011 03:19 PM

        I ate there a week ago and cannot relate to your experience. Increasingly in France, it is best to just ask, in English, "Do you speak English?"

        The staff at Ledoyan is decidedly aloof, but they are extremely attentive. At one point, I was served a truly beautiful dish. I mentioned to my companion that I hated to eat it. The Maitre D' popped up immediately out of no where to ask if everything is OK. Did you dress up to go there? If you didn't, you were considered rude and treated accordingly,

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          Steve Jul 16, 2011 07:41 PM

          The young man explains how he dressed.

          Thanks so much for a detailed review OP. Very insightful. You seem to have pictures of more food than you describe.... are you holding out on us?

          One correction, there's a lot of French cuisine that is not buttery at all!

          1. re: Steve
            law_doc89 Aug 9, 2011 08:53 PM

            There are blue blazers, and then there are blue blazers. I don't know how casually he was dressed.

            I do know that this is a wonderful restaurant with a very formal culture. It is easy for unsophisticated diners to misunderstand what is going on. I suspect many Americans expect to be intimidated, so they are meeting their own expectations. It is the most formal restaurant I have eaten at. Nonetheless, the staff was very helpful and willing to discuss dishes at length and make some knowledgeable recommendations upon learning my tastes.

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              souphie Aug 9, 2011 10:16 PM

              "One correction, there's a lot of French cuisine that is not buttery at all!"

              Yes but frankly, is it worth anything?

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                law_doc89 Aug 15, 2011 08:22 PM

                There is no substitute for real butter!

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            estnet Jul 14, 2011 11:56 PM

            My experience as a single diner albeit not as young as you, and with the ability to speak some French was quite different. The service and waiters were a bit more reserved than at other *ed places I ate, but when asked a question (eg sourcing of the butter) even the most officious became less reserved.
            I observed the service that an obviously very french couple received (they were seated directly in front of me) and aside from some slight irritation (or so it appeared to me, but very subtle) at the length of time it took them to decide on their order their service seemed no different from mine:)
            Having dined at Le Cinq on 2 different occasions (both wonderful) I can say the waiters are like anyone else - each with their own personality. The first time I was encouraged to use my less than fluent French with frequent lapses into English when needed, but the second time the waiter just spoke in English.

            1. Busk Jul 14, 2011 06:58 PM

              I highly recommend to dine at many, many more awesome Michelin restaurants in order to acclimate yourself to their weirdness. Also, I wouldn't read too much into the subtleties you mentioned. Help is more likely thinking about their car payments or their favorite football team, if not focused on doing their job properly.

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                Oakglen Jul 14, 2011 05:57 PM

                Yeah, I remember that old attitude. I thought they had changed; it's not all about Michelin stars, at least for us.

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