singles food events?
if you are anywhere near the UWS, i recommend dining at Bello Giardino on 71st and Columbus. i realize you aren't asking for restaurant recommendations, but the bar seating at Bello is very conducive to meeting people. it's a small bar of maybe 6-7 seats, but it's always full with kind neighborhood folk. the two girls behind the bar, Megan and Erin (I think), are both absolute darlings.
71 W 71st St, New York, NY 10023