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Charcuterie Etiquette?

Having come from an Asian background, I have to admit that most of my previous "dining out" experiences have been either asian restaurants or the type that you'd find in any North American chain-type restaurant.

Now that I've started branching out, I've always wanted to order a charcuterie plate but haven't simply because of the fear that I would not know what to do with it when it came!

Do you put the meat on the bread provided and eat it like an open-faced sandwich?
Are you allowed to pick it up with your fingers?
Do you put it on your plate and then use a knife and fork?

I'm totally lost and I've already tried googling the answer with no results...

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  1. I would say it depends upon the place. If it's serious French, knife and fork would not be frowned up, but in a more casual place you might be expected to use your hands. Just making it into a sandwich seems odd to me for some reason, but it is your food so enjoy. (If you look around before you order you might see someone eating it....you could follow their lead.)

    1. Once it's on your plate.....if it's soft, use utensils. If it's hard and can't be speared, use your hands.

      1. Just get it to your mouth, by any means necessary.

        1. I don't usually use my fingers, except for the bread. Sliced meats usually don't require any further cutting, but if necessary I'll cut the slice in half before eating it with a fork. I eat chunky paté with a fork and knife. I break off pieces of bread and eat them, maybe spread with or dipped in mustard. Stuff like smooth paté and rillettes, I spread on a piece of bread with my knife or fork. If there are gherkins, pickled onions, salad, etc., I eat them with a fork.

          It's a little bit like eating a cheese plate. There's really nothing to fear! Unless it all somehow ends up on the floor or in your hair, you're probably doing more or less the right thing.

          1. I was taught never to butter a whole slice of bread but rather put some butter on your bread plate and then break off a piece of the bread, butter it and put it in your mouth. I feel that is also the best way to deal with pate. At Xmas, I sat next to two guys in their 20s and they buttered whole pieces of bread and cut up all their food before they ate it--another thing I was taught not to do--so it may well all be generational.

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            1. re: escondido123

              At the risk of being OT, clearly your parents had some idea of table etiquette. The behaviours you described are evidence of why a business teaching table manners to grown men can exist.

              But to the OP: I don't see why or how you would approach this with any more trepidation than you would an antipasti plate at an Italian spot. My daughter plays soccer with a bunch of Italian girls, and at our frequent dinners (either picnics or restaurants), I watch the other parents. They think nothing of taking a piece of salami, wrapping it around a piece of pepper or pickled vegetable, and popping it into their mouths. Utensils are sometimes used with larger pieces, but not always. I have never seen anyone construct a sandwich, though. As esco123 points out, they will break off a piece of bread, and eat that separately, between bites of other things. My advice: so long as you're not chewing with your mouth open and/or cramming so much in your mouth at one time that your cheeks bulge, no one else is probably going to care.

            2. Since meat has been broke down to some form of sausage
              It is time to find strength in your forearm, your wrist, and your knife,

              Slather that grind onto some form of cracker
              and give chew to the consequent imbibe.

              Succulent ones, like a nascent braunschweiger,
              can be suckled or lip-pulled right straight from the tube.

              1. There are no rules. I use mostly hands, and mix and match components until I find a combination that satisfies me. I personally find twiddling with thin sliced charcuterie with a knife/fork a maddening experience. This is what I ususally do:

                Pick up a slice of meat. Tear off a piece and put it in your mouth. Chew. Yum. Put rest of meat in mouth and repeat. More yum in mouth. Pick up a piece of pickle or whatever else came with your plate and also put in mouth via hand. Still yummy! Feeling adventurous now? Pull off a piece of bread, and put both meat and other fixins on said bread. Maybe there's some condiment, pate or cheese that needs to be spread using a knife. Use knife to apply said component. Insert whole thing into mouth using hand. Chew. Yum again!

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                1. re: joonjoon

                  Meet me at the hedonist's table! Yum.

                2. Seeing as the OP uses the French word for this plate, let's just say that in France it would be an etiquette crime of major proportions to eat it other than with knife and fork. Similarly, here in the UK, cutlery would be provided and it would never have crossed my mind to not use them.

                  As always, cultural norms and restaurant etiquette may be different wherever you are.

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                  1. I think Harters’s point regarding time and place dictating the etiquette is the answer. I think it worth suggesting, however, that you carefully taste each of the elements on the plate. I mean, seriously, patiently sample each of the meats offered, the bread, the cornichon, whatever. Consider their flavors and textures independently. As many of the sausages will have similar ingredients, it is important to attempt to discern the subtle distinctions. Then you can move on to sandwiches or combinations, etc.

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                    1. re: MGZ

                      By the by, a plate of assorted charcuterie in France will often be known as an assiette anglaise, presumably suggesting its origins.

                    2. I only use knife and fork for the meats as part of a Charcuterie plate. I first cut a piece of the meat and use the fork to either bring to my mouth or place on the edge of a piece of bread. Eat. Repeat.

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                      1. re: jfood

                        Your method has rhythm, staccato, and grace.
                        A pianoforte of Charcuterie simplicity.

                        Do you think it would transfer, in it's simplicity,
                        To those of us who are left-handed?

                      2. I would wrap the prosciutto around a crostini, if available. The salumi are small enough to eat with your hands.