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Raleigh area - Date night Restaurant Recommendations?

alan412 Jan 17, 2011 06:38 AM

My wife and I are planning a regular date night throughout 2011. I would like to hear some restaurant recommendations.

- TVs are not everywhere in the restaurant. (We have precious little time together just the two of us, and don’t want to be distracted.)
- Noise level such that we can actually talk and hear each other
- Comfortable place to linger and talk. (We expect to spend about an hour and a half.)
- Raleigh and Westward. (we live where Cary/apex come together.)
- Does not have to be fancy. One of our date night places has been Lucky 32.

Thanks in advance,


Lucky 32
7307 Tryon Rd, Cary, NC 27518

  1. a
    alan412 Jan 21, 2011 09:56 AM

    Thank you everyone for the many suggestions!

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      work2eat Jan 19, 2011 05:24 PM

      I've loved Maximillions in Cary ever since my husband and I tried them several years ago. It is a small space, so I recommend a reservation. Great food, quiet atmosphere, good service, and nice wine list.

      1. LulusMom Jan 19, 2011 02:57 PM

        Coquette is nice without feeling fancy or overdone. Basic but well cooked french bistro food.

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        1. re: LulusMom
          work2eat Jan 19, 2011 05:25 PM

          I agree! We just tried it for the first time last weekend. Very nice night out with friends at a table for four. We could hear each other too!

        2. AreBe Jan 19, 2011 02:33 PM

          Bistro 64 offers their bar menu for half price on Thursday nights. You can order small plates style and stretch it to an hour and half easily. Nikos Taverna in Morrisville, but I haven't been in months.

          For Much less fancy - If you like soul/southern food and can enjoy a buffet for your date then get to Joyce and Family in Fuquay - I find it hard to stay under an hour when I go. We love the burgers, onion rings, and beer du jour at Abbey Road.

          Less chowish, but still good and nearby is La Rancherita in downtown Apex which is a notch or two better than Tres Magueyes. I won't go back to Daniels.

          Bistro 64
          103 Edinburgh South Drive, Cary, NC 27511

          La Rancherita Mexican Restaurant
          102 N Salem St, Apex, NC 27502

          Abbey Road Tavern & Grille
          1195 W Chatham St, Cary, NC 27513

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          1. re: AreBe
            AreBe Jan 24, 2011 03:01 AM

            My wife told me to let Alan and everyone else know that after thirty years together I do still love her, but our concept of an appropriate venue for a date is somewhat changed.

          2. panthur Jan 19, 2011 12:06 PM

            We enjoy Firebirds, Fleming's, Michael Dean's (they have a special on Monday night, fixed price), David's Dumpling & Noodle Bar - very affordable. I agree about Bella Monica and Hayes Barton.

            Bella Monica Restaurant
            3121 Edwards Mill Rd, Raleigh, NC 27612

            Barton Hayes Cafe & Dessertery
            2000 Fairview Rd, Raleigh, NC 27608

            Michael Dean's Seafood Grill
            6004 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh, NC 27609

            Firebirds Rocky Mountain Grill
            4350 Lassiter At North Hills Ave Ste 118, Raleigh, NC 27609

            Fleming's Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar
            4325 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh, NC 27612

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              burgeoningfoodie Jan 18, 2011 09:47 AM

              I hear about the following but haven't been, but will toss them out to see what others may say. Rey's, Maximillians, Daniel's (which I'm guessing you have been to in that area), Waraji, Taverna Nikos, An, Angus Barn, Heron's (if you want to dress up)...

              I take that back I've been to Taverna Nikos and Herons.

              Angus Barn Restaurant
              9401 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh, NC 27617

              1. aphayes Jan 17, 2011 09:41 AM

                I'll second Dos Taquitos, Oakwood Cafe, Sono, Cafe Caturra and Sawasdee. Also, perhaps consider Hayes Barton, Coquette, The Point (does have TVs), Bella Monica, The Pit, Shaba Shabu, and Glenwood Grill.

                Enjoy your dates!

                Bella Monica Restaurant
                3121 Edwards Mill Rd, Raleigh, NC 27612

                319 Fayetteville St, Raleigh, NC 27601

                Oakwood Cafe
                300 E Edenton St, Raleigh, NC 27601

                730 Augusta Rd, Warrenville, SC 29851

                Glenwood Grill
                2603-151 Glenwood Avenue, Raleigh, NC 27608

                1. RonboNC Jan 17, 2011 09:35 AM

                  Some of my fave date nights would be:

                  Tasca Brava: A bit pricey but great Spanish food and ambiance
                  Jibarra: Nouveau mexican, great margaritas
                  Bu*ku: Slick decor, broad menu but haven't been since chefs changed
                  Oakwood Cafe: Down-home Argentinian/Cuban food
                  Red Room: For decent tapas, interesting decor. Avoid late-nights on Thur-Sat due to club
                  Hayes Barton Cafe: Great comfort food and cakes, may need to wait for table
                  Sono: Sexy sushi and cool dining room
                  Humble Pie for small plates in an urban space, great deck when it warms up
                  Bella Mia: Fantastic neapolitan pizza pies, casual
                  Unaabi Grill: Tasty and unusual Afghani food, love the place even if it doesn't get much press
                  Cafe Caturra: My favorite casual wine bar and sandwich spot, can get noisy at times
                  Fraziers: Another great wine bar for small plates right on Hillsborough
                  Sawasdee Thai on Glenwood or Capital: Still probably the best Thai food in area

                  Jibarra Restaurant
                  7420 6 Forks Rd, Raleigh, NC 27615

                  Sawasdee Thai Restaurant
                  3601 Capital Blvd Ste 107, Raleigh, NC 27604

                  319 Fayetteville St, Raleigh, NC 27601

                  Red Room
                  510 Glenwood Ave, Ste 101, Raleigh, NC 27603

                  Oakwood Cafe
                  300 E Edenton St, Raleigh, NC 27601

                  Tasca Brava
                  607 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh, NC 27603

                  Bella Mia
                  2025 Renaissance Park Pl, Cary, NC 27513

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                    cackalackie Jan 17, 2011 12:27 PM

                    Love these - especially the shout out for Humble Pie.

                    1. re: RonboNC
                      rafeco Jan 17, 2011 01:03 PM

                      We ate at Buku last week -- I thought the food quality was just as good as it had been before. Not my favorite place in Raleigh, but it was still very very solid.

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                        RonboNC Jan 18, 2011 07:00 AM

                        Thanks for the update on buku, rafeco! Glad to know they're still doing a good job in the kitchen, need to get back and try it again...

                        110 E Davie St, Raleigh, NC 27601

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                      Tom from Raleigh Jan 17, 2011 07:12 AM

                      If you don't mind driving a bit, I'll recommend three places in Chapel Hill. First, Bonne Soiree. Classic date night place. Small, cozy, space. High end menu. Second, Lantern's Asian-influenced menu is some of the most forward thinking food in the Triangle. The room is dark at night which makes it seem like your party is the only one there (perhaps ask to be seated on the left side of the room as you face the back of the restaurant). The last place is a bit of a stretch. Vimala's Curryblossom Cafe. While this is more of a hole in the wall than a classic date night spot, I recommend it for the warm vibe I get whenever I go there.

                      Bonne Soiree Restaurant
                      431 W Franklin St Ste 10, Chapel Hill, NC 27516

                      Vimala's Curryblossom Cafe
                      431 W Franklin St, Chapel Hill, NC 27516

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                        rafeco Jan 17, 2011 07:07 AM

                        There are obviously a ton of fine dining options that you'll hear about that would suit your needs perfectly, but for something fun and different, check out the original Dos Taquitos at Millbrook and Creedmoor in Raleigh. It's fairly cheap, the food is great, and the atmosphere is both festive and intimate. (The decor is funky but it's also Raleigh's most dimly lit restaurant.) Very fun for a night out.

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                          cackalackie Jan 17, 2011 12:25 PM

                          We love Dos Taquitos. If you go, do yourself a favor and have one of their lovely soups. Many of the entrees come with "soup or salad." If not, order one.

                          1. re: rafeco
                            meatn3 Jan 24, 2011 07:27 AM

                            The noise level may be too high for the Poster, especially on weekends.

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