Can anyone recommend a good tasting menu for a wedding present? Nothing to stodgy. Between $100 -$150/pp.
Degustation is great. Annisa is also worth considering. The tasting menus at both are all less than $100. Is your stated budget for food only? If so, you could consider some of the high-end options like EMP, SHO or Picholine.
My favorite wedding gift was the Farmer's Feast at Blue Hill at Stone Barns (it's $105 for 5 courses and $135 for 8 courses).
Bouley has an exquisite tasting menu (yes, I've enjoyed it myself so I can recommend it) for $125 per person.