Vegetarian Wants to Enjoy Restaurant Indian Food
Let me start by saying that I LOVE Indian food.
So I am perplexed and frustrated that I have gotten very ill four times in a row while eating out at different SD Indian restaurants in the last year. Each experience was several months apart from the other, and I kept hoping that it was just a "fluke" that I was sick after eating Indian food again. None of the other people in our group has ever gotten sick, so there isn't a problem with any of the restaurants; the problem is with me. But I can't seem to ignore the obvious facts: I haven't gotten sick from any other cuisine; and all four times I ate out at Indian food (in the last year) were followed by vomiting (and sometimes diarrhea). Twice I reacted so quickly that I threw up in the car on the way home from the restaurant. The other two times were long nights of vomiting beginning about 2-4 hours after the meal.
I never used to get sick while eating Indian food-- for 10 years prior I have enjoyed the cuisine (I was living in the SF Bay area then). Does anyone know of a food intolerance that would show up later in life (I am 31) that would be present only in Indian food? I have cooked Indian food at home and never feel the slightest bit sick. But my ingredients may not be the most "authentic". I do not have ghee at home; I always use canola oil. Is this the most obvious culprit? I am not allergic to dairy, and have no known food allergies.
The dishes I generally order (I am vegetarian) are: dal, vegetable korma, palek paneer, aloo gobi, naan, samosas, and mango lassi. However, the last time I was sick I only ate naan, samosa, lassi and 1 bite of biryani.
I also visited New Delhi, India in the summer of 2007 for two weeks and ate local food (all vegetarian) for three meals a day and didn't get even slight stomach upset ever. We ate at all manner of places from tourist restaurants to street vendors (never any raw fruits/vegetables).
Please help me if you have any ideas! I really want to enjoy Indian food out (it is my husband's favorite); and I just can't seem to figure this one out.
Sounds to me like this is a question better asked of a medical professional. I would be curious to know where you're eating, though.
The fact that you are sick so soon after eating sort of indicates that it might not be a bug , but it would be best to check with a medical professional. Could it be that the dishes are really rich - lots of creamy sauces, ghee etc? Or your gut could be sensitive to a particular spice or spices. I know that turmeric makes me fart. Even if you haven't been sensitive to anything before, the immune system does change as we age so we can develop sensitivities to things we were fine with previously.
Retired RN here. My guess is that they're not sneaking meat products into your food, if that's what you're thinking. This has more to do with gastrointestinal system than it has to do with your vegetarianism. We're assuming this is at different restaurants. (If it's not, that tells us more.) Do you eat similarly rich food elsewhere? That really is awfully fast for something that's from microorganisms.
If you don't want to go see a gastroenterologist, I'd start by doing an elimination diet sort of thing. Have only one simple thing, perhaps the lassi. If the symptoms develop then, I'd think about a problem with mangos or yogurt. (Mango problems, like lots of food intolerances, can develop in the middle of your life, which is always hard for us to get our heads around: "But I've ALWAYS been able to eat okra!") If you're okay, next visit add one more thing, This is obviously a pain in the wazoo, but so is what you've got now.
Most restaurant food is MUCH richer than what we cook at home, whatever the cuisine. My guess is your body is reacting to the extreme richness of the restaurant food as opposed to a particular ingredient, like ghee vs. canola, or the amount of grease in restaurant biryani as opposed to what you'd make at home.
Much as I don't like to admit it myself, I see among my friends (40something) and even moreso my Mom and her friends (60something) that the older you get, the less you can tolerate these kinds of rich foods. Bringing up after a meal or a night of horrible stomach pains and the runs is a common theme after ingesting a too-rich meal.
I would suggest going for lunch for Indian, where portions are smaller, and maybe eating half portions of what you order. You could bring the rest home and try to eat it in a couple of days.
I'd be inclined to pin the blame on the ghee... Indian food is delicious, but it makes me regret it afterwards because there's way too much milk fat in it for me to be able to digest it.