Going for a rare dinner out without the kids tommorow.
We enjoy the Inn at Rancho Santa Fe..it's simple and elegant.
I've had good meals at Blue Fire Grill at La Costa Resort..summer on the patio with fireplace is a nice place to dine...love the massages and the Chopra center.
Rancho Valencia resort in RSF is nice too.
Hacienda de Vega in Escondido has a wonderful patio with a huge waterfall with live music and great Mexican food.