Ooh, that's a toughy - I've been to both Peller Estates & Hillebrand, haven't tried Vineland. Will you be having wine with your meal? Both Peller & HIllebrand have excellent wine and service. Lunch at HIllebrand is in a separate building than the boutique, while Peller Estates is a large building, very gorgeous, both dining rooms are intimate, and the chefs are excellent.
Peller Estates' Menu
Guess it all depends on personal choice, they're all so yummy looking! Enjoy your choice!
re: Charles Yu
Charles, you're awesome, plus we have the same last name, well, at least I think we do, haha.
Hillebrand is indeed a lot more modern. What did you have at Vineland? Most recently, I had the tasting menu at Peller Estates.
Also, if you're a Wine Club member at Hillebrand/Peller Estates, and mention it casually or off-hand to your server, they may give an extra treat ;) Mine was a flight of icewines - Cabernet Franc, Vidal, and Riesling :)