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Mar 2, 2010 09:29 AM

Looking for a gathering place (drinks & light food) for a largish group after work in Durham or Chapel Hill after work…

I need suggestions on somewhere that would be good for a largish (exact size is unknown) group of women to gather after work. The idea would be for it to be a social for a mixed group of professional women and women currently in law school, allowing for networking. I am looking for somewhere that would have a place that the group could gather & mingle with each other, but that wouldn’t charge a fee for the space. We want somewhere quiet enough that people can converse, but not so dead that early arrivals feel like everyone else there is staring at them. Cheap drinks are a plus.

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  1. Well I would have said Milltown right off the top of my head, but it isn't quiet. When I've helped with theatre performances at the ArtsCenter.. that is where we would usually wind up after closing shop. Don't recall drinks being cheap but there may be specials. I'll think some more on it while others give better suggestions.

    I think Top of the Hill has a private room but Id on't think they are cheap nor would you get it for free.

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    1. re: burgeoningfoodie

      When they were still open, we'd use Goldies for events like this. The food wasn't great but the (usually empty) space was great for stuff like this. I haven't been but I've heard that the new place in that space (R/R Grill?) is about the same.

    2. Satisfaction might do.

      So might Parizade.

      Don't try Revolution...

      Parizade and Satisfaction both have semi-private spaces that they don't charge for, last I'd heard, but I doubt they'd fit more than 10 to 20.

      If you're in the public space, they both have layouts amenable to walking from table to table to chat.

      Hard to say what would work without having a ballpark size for the group.

      You could call one of the larger Mexican restaurants like Torero's on 15-501 and see if they are willing to cordon off part of their dining room or reserve a side room for an hour.

      After work is a dead time for most Mexican restaurants and most have cheap drinks.

      1. maybe city beverage. they have a bar service area past the bar which might work. they also have a pretty spacious back area, but i think is aimed toward diners. pint nights ($3) on tuesdays and thursdays.

        there's a side room at tyler's durham on the dining side, not sure if they charge a fee to reserve that area. actually, a better option is to gather on the speakeasy side.

        there's also a room in bull mccabe's that used to be the nonsmoking room. might want to see if they would let you reserve it. however, moving around in that room might be tough with all the tables and chairs.

        depending on the weather, the outdoor area at parker and otis looks spacious.

        1. Spice Street might work well for what you're looking for, but the drinks aren't cheap and the food is so-so, really, at best and definitely overpriced. The interior is trendy but it's a large space. They run specials -- for instance, martinis are five bucks on Thursday nights -- which can keep costs down.

          1. What about somewhere that has live music (I don't know of anywhere, but figured you guys might)? It would be Friday March 19th, and my best guess on group size is somewhere between 20 & 60 (which is the range I get at day time lunch meetings when no special invitation is extended to students).

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            1. re: NC IP

              this may be a bit OT, but that day will be the second day of the NCAA basketball tournament. that means noontime start for the games; i would expect many places to be busier earlier. that also may or may not affect your ability to 'reserve' a space.

              1. re: NC IP

                With a group that size, forget about Milltown. The space really isn't laid out to accomodate large groups (except for the outside seating which will probably be too cold in mid-March), plus the servers don't seem to care for large groups. l've been there on two separate occasions with groups no larger than 10 or 15 people and both times we've gotten horrible service and EXTREME pissy attitudes from the servers.

                1. re: NC IP

                  On a Friday evening, I think you're going to find most places will require a fee or minimum if you get close to 40 or 60 people.