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Jan 28, 2010 08:04 AM

Help me decide-Dad's 80th b-day: EMP, Convivo, Marea, Hearth, Perilla or USC?

I know these are all very different--I just can't decide. Want a lovely, memorable meal with gracious service. Thank you I am spinning my wheels!!!

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  1. EMP by a mile for such an occasion. No question.

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    1. re: gutsofsteel

      I agree with you 100%. My 85 years (young) mother adores EMP. She made me promise her that for her next birthday in August, we celebrate it at EMP. We look forward to it!

      1. re: ellenost

        Thank you--I should add my DAd is a young 80 as well,,, but we haven't been to EMP in over 5 years and I think he'll really enjoy.

        1. re: enp123

          Oh so you haven't been since Daniel Humm took're in for a real treat. Reserve asap.

    2. No surprise that I echo the EMP suggestion. We were just there for Mr. R.'s birthday on Tuesday evening. The 11-course Gourmand (which ended up a baker's dozen) was truly exciting! Four hours of enchanting bliss!

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      1. Not that you need another EMP vote, but really that's the only place on the list that I'd take them. I'm sure they'll love everything including the wonderful space. Who knows, your Dad may have been there when it was still a bank and have wonderful stories to tell you.

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        1. re: Jane A.

          I hate to be picky, but it was never a bank. It was part of the (very large) lobby of the Met Life building.

        2. I'd choose Convivio. Where EMP is grand, Convivio is intimate. Where EMP can veer toward the stiff and pretentious, Convivio is warm and attentive. EMP is impressive, Convivio memorable. The menus are distinct, with equally wonderful preparations in my experience. Take a look for yourself. You'd do well either way, but a slight edge goes to Convivio.

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          1. re: burton

            I have been at EMP many times - one of the things I love about it is that it's so good, and so very unpretentious and there is nothing stiff about it. One of its most special qualties is its ability to remain at the top of the quality and service chain while remaining comfortable and friendly. And to compare it to Convivio? Convivio is a nice restaurant with some good dishes but that's about it. I cannot fathom any comparison of quality between the two places in any way.

            Also, there is hardly a more beautiful restaurant space in NYC than EMP. At Convivio, the tables are too close together and it's light years less elegant and gracious than EMP.

            burton, when were you last at EMP?

            1. re: gutsofsteel

              I used to go to EMP with some frequency in previous years and always left very pleased. It really was one of my favorites overall. On a more recent visit however (2009) I was surprised at some of the service related issues (though food overall was excellent) as suggested in my earlier posting. Perhaps the experience was uncharacteristic but the issues were sufficiently pervasive for me not to want to rush back any time soon. Glad to see so many continue to have very positive experiences. I suppose some variability goes with the territory, right? By contrast, two visits to Convivio in recent months have been near-perfect and I recommend it wholeheartedly for across the board excellence.

              1. re: burton

                I think issues with service at EMP are anomalous. What issues did you experience?

                My recent Convivio visit was fraught with service issues! Had to ask for water many times, My companion and I were served at different times with the same course, silverware didn't arrive with the food, coffee was lukewarm...

          2. I recently had a VERY memorable meal at Convivio w/ a large group of foodies and we all agreed – it was fantastic! Every dish was perfect, the wine list extensive, and impeccable service. I can’t wait to return! Plus Tudor City adds great NY ambiance.