recommendations for restaurant w/private room for 40th bday dinner?

[abutter1]

i am trying to plan a birthday dinner for my husband.... there'll be about 20 of us. any recommendations for a restaurant w/private room, preferably in lower westchester. not a steakhouse as about 1/2 the guests are vegetarian/fish only.

so far i have come up with
the melting pot (they were booked)
antipasti
sam's of gedney way

thanks.

[cubanat]

In Port Chester: tarry Lodge, FISH or Nessa.
In Rye: rubys, morgan's fish, rye bar & grill for that matter, whitby castle's wine room & la panetierre are all better than the places on your list for different reasons but first and foremost the food.
In White Plains: peniche is fun and tasty. I have heard good things about Vintage also but have never been. 42 if cost isn't an issue.
In Harrison: Trattoria Vivolo is low key and accomodating...have fun

[rolise]

Acquario in West Harrison. My MIL threw a pre-wedding rehersal dinner party there. it was very nice. Good food and not too $$.

[intrepid]

stay away from antipasti, ugggg, lolitas in portchester is a good place for a party check them out

[scarsdalesurprise]

Il Soriso in Irvington has a lovely private room, but I don't know if it can hold 20. If you want something casual, Pete's Saloon in Elmsford could work.

[goodhealthgourmet]

this is probably out of the way for you, but if you're willing to come out to NJ, Nisi Estiatorio in Englewood is an *excellent* Greek seafood restaurant with a smaller room for private dining. you can shoot straight down I-95, and it's only a few miles from the GWB.

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Nisi Estiatorio
90 Grand Avenue, Englewood, NJ 07631