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Aug 12, 2009 11:22 AM

First dates a go-go

I live in Hollywood and would love some suggestions for good first date places when he says "Do you have a favorite place near you?" (Does Cactus #1 on Vine count? Help!)

Casual (not bank breaking) food and/or great place to grab a drink (preferably wine).....

Bonus round: This week's bachelor lives in Hermosa Beach....any suggestions for somewhere fun halfway?


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  1. not exactly half-way, but
    26 beach restaurant near marina del rey, but technically in venice.
    pretty restaurant (shabby chic style)
    very decent wine (rutherford chardonnay about $10 glass)
    terrific array of inventive entree salads for about $15
    terrific burgers (including veggie burgers) for about $13, irrc. including great fries (if you chose the salad instead of the fries, imho the house salad is better than the caesar side salad)
    entree dishes (not their strongest category, imho, despite having a great whole crispy striped bass there the other night) mostly in the $20's.
    good desserts.
    valet parking

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    1. re: westsidegal

      I think that striped bass is the real sleeper on the menu. I had it when someone else ordered it and now I love it, so good. Some of the pastas are interesting, the chicken chipotle or the chicken curry pasta. Get the 3 layer devil's food cake for dessert.

    2. The newly relocated Vinoteque on Melrose might be good to try.

      As would the Foundry next door -- if you eat in the lounge and avoid the main menu prices.

      I also like the 3rd Stop for good casual eats and mellow beer & wine only vibe.

      Bowery by the Arclight could be another good choice, closer to you than him.

      Or if you really want to save him the longer drive, Father's Office could be fun, among several other Culver City spots.

      To name just a few.

      3rd Stop
      8636 W 3rd St, Los Angeles, CA 90048

      Foundry On Melrose
      7465 Melrose Avenue, Los Angeles, CA 90046

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      1. re: wutzizname

        I agree about the Foundry, I love the place and believe it or not, their patio menu is very reasonable.

        And I want to second Father's Office, I've taken two first dates there, both were successful!

        1. re: SmokeyDoke

          If someone took me out on a date to Father's Office, I think I would walk out. Isn't the point of a first date to Impress Someone, not turn them off??

          1. re: Phurstluv

            Point taken that you don't like the place but if someone was into beer, it would be hard to do better than Father's Office on the westside.

            1. re: Phurstluv

              It depends, if it's an internet first date, FO is fine, if it's a formal first date, then I'd opt for something fancier.

              1. re: Munniker

                Actually it depends on what the OP asked for, which is "a casual (not bank breaking) food and/or great place to grab a drink."

                In my book, Father's Office hits all those on the head. But then I never thought first dates where about "impressing" anyone, just finding a comfortable, enjoyable place to talk.

              2. re: Phurstluv

                FO in Culver City? or SM?

                I thought the FO in CC was nice; dark, intimate, nice couches, all the variables needed for a romantic conversation. Only problem is it can get too crowded and they may get stuck outside in the park benches.

                1. re: SmokeyDoke

                  I've been to the CC location a few times, and I love their burger and sweet potato fries (and beer!), but I wouldn't think of it as a good spot for a date. It's always been fairly full to having to spend 30min. hawking for a table. I wouldn't consider it quiet either.

                  Also, I don't think they have couches... they have the "bench" along the walls and a couple "mini-booths" IIRC.

                  Would probably be solid for a 3rd or 4th date though...

                  1. re: SmokeyDoke

                    Either one. And in the words of mollyomoron, both places seem to "douchier" as the evenings wear on...

                    1. re: Phurstluv

                      I was referring to Renee's and Bodega, not to either location of FO.

                      1. re: mollyomormon

                        I know, I just wanted to use the term "douchier"!

                  1. re: flylice2x

                    Both liked Father's Office, it made for a pleasant date.


                    A lady doesn't kiss and tell.

              3. i'm surprised no one suggested Renee's....

                Renee's Courtyard Cafe
                522 Wilshire Blvd
                Santa Monica, CA 90401-1412
                (310) 451-9341

                another option (that's also unfortunately closer to him than to you) - Primitivo Wine Bar in Venice.

                1025 Abbot Kinney Blvd., Venice, CA 90291

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                1. re: goodhealthgourmet

                  With the caveat that Renee's would only be a good option earlier in the week as it gets louder and douchier as the week goes on. Similarly, I think that Bodega on Lincoln and Broadway in Santa Monica is a good spot, but only early in the week. Culver City seems pretty mid-point and there are a ton of spots there, as wutzizname pointed out.

                  1. re: mollyomormon

                    hmmm, interesting. now that you mention it i may only have been to Renee's early in the week! good to know...

                    1. re: mollyomormon

                      Douchier? I've never heard that adjective.

                      1. re: Phurstluv

                        It gets loud and has sort of a frat boy meat market-y feel later in the week.

                        1. re: mollyomormon

                          Ahhh, okay, got it. Guess I'm getting old!!

                  2. patio at il moro is great first date place. very good regional italian food at reasonable prices, lots of wines by the glass or cocktails

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                    1. re: peppermonkey

                      could you give us an idea about what the 'reasonable' dinner prices are at il moro?
                      when a date and i went for dessert and cappucino, it ended up costing over $20/per person all in.
                      my assumption is that a full blown dinner there might be a little expensive for a first date.

                      have to say though, the place was very pretty and romantic.

                    2. Lucky you, I think Hollywood is a central location for dates. I guess it depends what you consider "casual" as so many places offer good happy hours and prix fixe these days.

                      Here are some places I'd recommend, all of them have a romantic vibe, are smallish and have good, reasonably priced eats.

                      Boho I believe they have a good wine selection.
                      Hungry Cat for happy hour
                      Kitchen 24

                      As for the midway spot, I recommend Culver City. It's fun to stroll along Helms, or shop at Surfas. I believe there's a museum there too. Good luck!

                      The Hungry Cat
                      1535 Vine St, Los Angeles, CA 90028