Anniversary dinner, classic NY
Looking for the fanciest, most classically NY romantic restaurant for a special anniversary. Price not important but I'm after mood more than a price tag. If the atmosphere is there, skys the limit. Private room for 2? Even better...
Been to Gramercy Tavern, One if By Land, River Cafe. TOTG,
Its for later in the year, I want to reserve now and try to hustle "the best table".
La Grenouille - the remaining grande dame of classic French cuisine, with a beautiful room. They do have a private room upstairs, but it might not be intimate enough.
Also - it depends on what you mean by romantic - other choices - Daniel, Bouley, EMP - but I really don't think of any of them as romantic, per se. Maybe Danube, though recent food reports aren't great.
In support of MMRuth's suggestion (and others)
Last year my wife and I went to La Genouille for our anniversary and it was superb - high class, impeccable, discreet service - oh and the food is good too. It really is the epitome of classic old-guard NYC restaurant.
We've also successfully celebrated past anniversaries at: Per Se, Aureole, Bouley, Chanterelle, Eleven Madison Park and Gramercy Tavern.
I've heard The Water Club is very romantic at night, but I've only had lunch there (I'm throwing it out there but wouldn't recommend it unless others post positively)