I actually went recently on a Friday and the service was really over the top and amazing. Also on Friday they are now doing a special on all champagne by the glass and by the bottle, it's all half price. I think I had fried lobster and it was delicious, the mustard sauce is great that comes with it.
My husband and I went to Pano's & Paul's few years ago and it wasn't very good - it definitely didn't meet our expecations. It's sort of old and stuffy and the food was just ok. But we haven't been in a while so maybe it's better. If you are looking for a romantic Steakhouse I HIGHLY recommend Rathbun's Steakhouse. We loved everything about it - food, service, ambiance. We also love NY Prime in Buckhead but its a little noisier in the dining room. Good luck!