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Dinner with Dad

My dad is coming to visit in April and wants to take me out to dinner for my birthday. I want really good food and he wants quiet. In the past we've gone to Le Bernardin, Bouley, Daniel, Degustation, Gramercy Tavern. This time I was hoping for something a little more on the casual side but still nice. Any neighborhood is fine. Ideas? Suggestions? I've been coming up with ideas from this board but he keeps being concerned that they are going to be too noisy.

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      1. Also thought of DelPosto or Babbo...

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        1. Eleven Madison Park? Or the Modern?

          1. Check out Dovetail (I feel like I've been recommending it alot). I was extremely impressed, as was my dining partner.


            1. Thanks for the responses.
              I had considered both Eleven Madison Park and Dovetail but the New York Times reviews list them as 'Loud in spots and at times, but not painfully so' and 'Moderately loud' respectively so my dad was concerned about them. Do you think those are accurate?

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              1. re: efhorton

                I don't recall EMP being loud at all.

                1. re: MMRuth

                  Me neither. Dovetail isn't loud at all, either.


                  1. re: LeahBaila

                    Actually, it depends on where you are seated. Our first two times we were in a corner and it was fine, but the last time we were in the middle of the room at a table next to a brick wall. I don't know if it was the sound bouncing off the wall or what, but I did find it moderately loud. The times we went to EMP, I felt it was very quiet, but again it may depend on where you are seated. I would request a quiet spot when reserving at either.

                    1. re: rrems

                      Dovetail has a lower level. I found the area to be quiet enough for my taste. Your dad seems to be very sensitive to noise so I wouldn't want to venture to guess whether he would find it too loud. My understanding was that the lower level could be reserved for larger groups ($1200 minimum, I think without service and tax). I actually considered that myself but decided against it. In any case, if a large party reserves the room for the evening, then you would be out of luck. You could also be potentially out of luck if a large group sits there but doesn't reserve the entire level and they turn out to be loud, in which case diners at adjacent tables may feel overwhelmed by the larger group.

                  1. re: MMRuth

                    I would have suggested Picholine, but it is anything but casual, so I didn't think it is what OP is looking for.

                1. Babbo but request for upstairs only and you must make a reservation exactly one month in advance.

                  L' Atelier de Joel Robuchon by the bar is casual and quiet.