Blue Water Grill might fit the bill. A full seafood menu in an elegant but not uptight atmosphere. In the heart of Union Square you will be in the middle of everything. The food has been consistently good and a great place for a birthday celebration.
If you want to go more downtown, Gotham Bar & Grill is excellent although probably a little more expensive. Again, a very nice atmosphere for a fun celebratory night.
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