The owner/chef yelled at me from the kitchen for 5 minutes-I was mortified.
The other day we popped into a new Greek restaurant that had been open for only a few days. We ordered glasses of white wine and an order each of dolmades and calamari. The calamari was acceptable, if not rather rubbery. The dolmades were straight out of a can - you know the kind. You can buy the can for about $3.00 at any Greek or Italian store or at your local supermarket, for that matter. They are plain grape leaves stuffed with white rice and swimming in poor quality oil. Well, on our plate lay about half a can of dolmades, very cold from the fridge. The cost was $10.00. When the waitress came over to ask how the meal was I politely told her that I was very disappointed in the canned dolmades and the fact that they were so cold. She went back to the kitchen (which was an open kitchen for all patrons to see and hear) and immediately the chef/cook started yelling that I know nothing about Greek food, he always eats them cold, I shouldn't bother eating them then, etc. He kept this rant up for at least 5 minutes. It was directed solely at me. I was so embarrassed! We paid and got the heck out of there.
Was I wrong about dolmades?
If we are dissapointed in restaurant food and the waitress asks how we are enjoying the meal, shouldn't we reply honestly? What do you think I should have done?
Thank you, everyone, for your comments. A couple of you asked for the name of the restaurant. It is ADONIS GREEK RESTAURANT, on St. Albert Trail in St. Albert, Alberta, which is a suburb of Edmonton. (I actually haven't seen any evidence of anyone from this area on CHOWHOUND, which is a shame.) Anyway, I have told as many people as I can. I'm not off Greek food, however. I have a moussaka in the oven right now!
"NO SOUP FOR YOU!"
Of course you have no idea how tactfully your displeasure was delivered to the chef by the waitress, out of your sight. But regardless, the owner/chef was out of line - WAY out.
"Open only a few days" - that might be all the time it remains open, if he's treating customers like this. A businessperson can stay in the back and think anything he wants about the "idiot customers", including picturing colorful and dramatic ways of killing them, but he'd better not bring that out front - ever.
In Greece dolmades with rice (called dolmadakia) and are served at room temperature never cold from the fridge. Dolmades which contain meat (sometimes wrapped in grape leaves or gabbage) are always served warm/hot with an avgolemono lemon egg) sauce ont them.
We Greeks are very very dramatic people...but the owner was COMPLETELY out of line. Not only should he not have yelled at you but he should have taken them of the bill.
If I were you I would create a new post with this restaurant's name so as to warn other hounds in your area to never ever eat there!
Could be worse: I once saw a guy chased from a Manhattan restaurant by a screaming chef with a big knife in his hand because the customer had the audacity to ask for salt. Needless to say, I did not find fault with any of my food.
Your chef's behavior was Inexcusable. I think you should tell a thousand people that story.
Aside from the truely classless and totally unprofessional behaviour. You like your dolomites at room temperature. Or warm, whatever. That's how you like them. It's not up to the chef to tell you how to eat your food.
It is completely in his right to help you find out the most enjoyable way. Offering suggestions and such.
I don't honestly know whether dolmades should be served warm or cold or room temp or searingly hot. Its also irrelevant to the chef's behaviour. If he had actually taken a polite approach and said that he eats them cold and told you about why, you'd likely have felt like you had a good experience, even if you still didn't like the dolmades there.
Being yelled at in any restaurant or any business by anyone is unacceptable in virtually any circumstance. (I'm sure we can all imagine situations in which yelling would be both reasonable and expected....but this isn't that.)
I've always been served dolmades at room temp or just slightly warm, both in restos and in greek homes. If they were canned draining and adding a good olive oil and a squeeze of lemon helps, but I wouldn't pay $10 for them.
Ack! Start a pool as to when the place closes. If this was a simple service issue, that could be corrected by replacing a server it would be easy, wait a while and go back after they've had a chance to work out the kinks. A cook who thinks it's appropriate to abuse customers in addition to staff is a whole other problem.
Tip the waitress apropriately and advise her ot start looking for another job.
Name the resto, they had no problem with their behavior, save others the same experience.
you were right to be honest. at any place decent, i've always been served warm dolmades. (never been to greece, but they are much more tasty this way!)
in point of fact, it sounds like the waitress was on the receiving end of his tirade. i've stood in her shoes more than once, and it's more awful than you can imagine. i once got reamed by a chef because the suckling pig ordered by a guest was not finished cooking. he went off on a crazy rant about it never being ready before 6:00 ( a lie), he didn't care if it was her birthday, who did she think she was, etc. she and her husband had saved for months to dine there. they had symphony tickets for after, so were on a schedule. they were the only people in the diningroom so of course heard his expletive laced shouting. the woman burst into tears. i was mortified. their dinner and her birthday were ruined.
why chefs with tempers have open kitchens is beyond me.
hopefully you left a big tip.