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daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 02:53 AM

Does anyone have a tried and true better than sex pie recipe, there are tons of variations and my southern friend that had the recipe has moved. i think there may be pudding in it, and bananas? I really can't remember. anything would help. Thanks a bunch!

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    abs294 Sep 26, 2007 08:30 PM

    My hallmate in college made something called Sex in a Bowl, which was coffee poured over chocolate cake and then crumbled, and layered with chocolate pudding, cool whip, and crushed Heath bars. I think I might dig it out tomorrow and make some!

    1. chelleyd01 Sep 19, 2007 07:53 AM

      our version is a 9x13 pan of fudge brownies painted several times with Kahlua, and crumbled. Then we layer with 2 large boxes of prepared chocolate pudding mixed with a container of creamy cool whip, heath bar pieces, caramel sauce, pecans, plain cool whip and you just layer and layer. It has to sit overnight though.

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        Fleur Sep 19, 2007 01:19 AM

        No pudding, no bananas, but the recipe is delicious. It comes from one of Maida Heatter'searliest books.

        The crust is made like a candy crunch. No one ever refuses..before, during and after :+}

        1. jazzyy Sep 18, 2007 01:57 PM

          here is my recipe on better than sex pie

          1cup sugar creamed with full brick of cream cheese
          and fold in 32oz Cool Whip

          in a seperate bowl make one package of chocolate jello instant pudding
          (i make this first and let it set up)

          fill half of one graham cracker pie shell with cool whip mixture and reserve the rest for a second layer

          then top pie with chocolate pudding
          and then layer it with more cool whip mix

          I like to shave a little chocolate on the top

          its really good if you let it set up over night but you dont have to, once you taste it you wont be able to let it set up for more than an hour...LOL (Sooooooooo Goooood)

          Enjoy

          PS this is also really good if you use banana flavored jello pudding and top it with thinly sliced bananas

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            fmogul Jan 24, 2007 12:30 AM

            This is flaunting my culural ignorance, but I never heard of this (though we did have "BTS Brownies") and originally had the same question as seattledebs, the self-proclaimed fruit "purist". Not to hijack the thread, but seattledebs, if you're out there, do you have a master fruit pie recipe to share? Sounds like ir might be "a pie that is, well, better than sex," in a very different way!

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              Fleur Jan 22, 2007 07:15 PM

              Thanks Derek. That is the exact recipe, the real deal.

              I was foolishly looking for "Better Than Sex Pie" in my Maida Heatter books, and never found it.

              I used this basic recipe and loved it, especially the crust. I have also made the crust with Pecans or Hazelnuts. Also just filled the shell with Ice Cream and used the topping in the recipe.

              My DH has only heard about this fabulous dessert, never actually had it. He is the real chocolate person in the family and I am planning to make it over the weekend.

              Thanks again.

              1. mcel215 Jan 22, 2007 10:02 AM

                Paula Deen has Not your Mothers Banana Pudding, and a better than sex cake I believe. Check out food network, and do a search.

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                  luv2bake Jan 23, 2007 10:58 PM

                  The cake is here ("Is it really better than sex? cake")
                  http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/recipes/recipe/0,,FOOD_9936_22524,00.html

                  "Not yo' mama's banana pudding"
                  http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/recip...

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                  Fleur Jan 19, 2007 08:28 AM

                  The original "better than sex" pie was created by the doyenne of American desserts, Maida Heatter. I remember it having a candy crunch kind of crust, and a chocolate coffee filling.

                  No pudding, no bananas, nothing artificial, just pure bliss.

                  This might be a case for Uncle Phaedrus.

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                    ChowFun_derek Jan 20, 2007 09:05 AM

                    might it be "Coffee Toffee Pie?"

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                      Fleur Jan 22, 2007 08:54 AM

                      Derek, I think you got it.

                      Do you have the recipe? I can't seem to find the book. Does Mrs Heatter talk about the "better than sex part"? I wouldn't go quite that far, but it is delicious.

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                        ChowFun_derek Jan 22, 2007 04:29 PM

                        Yes..on both accounts!

                        it is in her "Book of Great Desserts" she calls it 'Coffee Buttercrunch Pie" page 355
                        There are many versions available on the net,,,some similar to, and some exactly like Maida's.... here is a link to one of them...

                        http://www.cooks.com/rec/doc/0,1837,1...

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                          DGresh Sep 19, 2007 03:10 AM

                          what is a "pie crust mix" do you think? Should I just start with one of my own pie crust recipes and add the additional flavorings from there?

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                            debby Sep 26, 2007 10:39 PM

                            Pie crust mix comes in a box and is found in the baking aisle. I know it sounds strange. Probably best not to read the ingredients. I only buy it for Coffee Toffee Pie. I don't think using a pie crust recipe would work.

                            The pie is delicious. A friend of my family calls it the missing link between food and sex.

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                              Fleur Sep 26, 2007 11:36 PM

                              I agree. I never use Pie Crust Mix in a box, except for this recipe. I have tried it with home made crust, and it never comes out as delicious.

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                    dtud Jan 19, 2007 02:01 AM

                    i don't know if this is what you wanted but in high school i remember this recipe:

                    1 graham cracker pie crust

                    Filling:
                    1 envelope choc. pudding - set per pie recipes
                    make whipped cream out of 1 pint of heavy whipping cream (with powdered sugar to sweeten to taste)
                    add a package of cream cheese - and blend.

                    put pudding in pie filling and chill until firm. add whipped cream topping mixture on top. sprinkle with shaved chocolate or cocoa powder.

                    this is really actually EXTREMELY yummy!!

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                      addlepated Jan 18, 2007 08:16 PM

                      I've made this before, and it's shamefully good. This is sort of a family recipe.

                      1 box Duncan Hines yellow cake mix
                      1 cup sugar
                      1 can crushed pineapple
                      2 cups milk
                      1 package vanilla instant pudding
                      1 package cream cheese
                      bananas
                      1 tub Cool Whip
                      maraschino cherries
                      chopped pecans

                      Make the yellow cake with milk instead of water. Let cool completely. Take 1 cup sugar and boil with 1 can crushed pineapple for 2 minutes. Let cool completely. Poke several holes in the cake and pour over pineapple mixture. Combine 2 cups milk, package of vanilla pudding mix, and softened cream cheese, spread on top of cake. Slice bananas and place on top. Add cherries and pecans. Refrigerate for 8 hours.

                      Enjoy!

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                        ElissaInPlaya Jan 19, 2007 03:52 PM

                        my mom made this a billion times for church potlucks. She calls it dump cake and uses cherry pie filling instead of maraschino cherries.

                      2. spaetzle Jan 18, 2007 08:02 PM

                        The same dessert is called sex in a pan. The version I've had the most often has graham cracker crumbs, banana pudding and chocolate pudding in it. I read somewhere that it was originally called six in a pan, because of the six ingredients, but somewhere along the way the name changed to it's current name.
                        67 versions are at cooks.com:
                        http://www.cooks.com/rec/search/0,1-00,sex_in_a_pan,FF.html

                        http://southernfood.about.com/od/cake...

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                          amyamelia Jan 18, 2007 07:40 PM

                          Hah!
                          My mom makes a dessert called "the next best thing to Robert Redford" in either a chocolate or lemon version. Yummy indeed. I can provide the recipe if you are interested. Looks a lot like brekkie fan's above.

                          aa

                          1. luv2bake Jan 18, 2007 04:09 AM

                            I wasn't going to post this since you specifically said pie, but it is good, and its title was Better Than Sex Cake. It was given to me by a friend about 15 - 20 years ago. It's fast & easy (if you use a cake mix), and everyone used to request the recipe. I haven't made it in years since I am pretty much a scratch baker, but it is good in a pinch, especially if you need your kids or other less-experienced baker to make the dessert for you! :)

                            German chocolate cake, baked according to directions, in 9x13 pan.
                            1 can sweetened condensed milk
                            1 jar caramel topping
                            1 large container non-dairy whipped topping
                            3-4 chocolate-covered toffee bars
                            After you cool the cake, poke holes in it with the handle of a wooden spoon. Pour the milk into the holes. Over this, pour the caramel topping. Spread the container of whipped topping over all. Crumble the candy bars and sprinkle over the top. Refrigerate for several hours.

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                              daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 04:20 AM

                              Maybe I will bake both!! It will be a 'better than sex off'.

                              They both do seem quite simple, and I normally would choose something so elaborate a few hours into the process I want to shoot myself. So this could be fun. Everyone has been so helpful

                              THANX A MILLION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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                                PrincessBakesALot Jan 19, 2007 02:31 AM

                                I have this recipe, but it's called Candy Bar cake. It has caused friends at parties to actually fight over taking home the leftovers. I'm not a coolwhip fan, but this is SO good!

                              2. luv2bake Jan 18, 2007 03:43 AM

                                I found quite a few quickly on a Google search, and they all seem to basically be the same, with pudding - but no bananas. You could easily add them, of course. Anyhow, here's a link to one of the recipes I found
                                http://www.recipesource.com/baked-goo...

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                                  daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 03:56 AM

                                  I am comparing this recipe you linked to to the one above they are very similar, I am going to make a hybrid of the two. Thank you so very much! the dinner party is saved and the birthday boy will be pleased.

                                  That is a great site recipe source!!!! I hadn't used it.

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                                    luv2bake Jan 18, 2007 04:03 AM

                                    It's just one of a number of good recipe sites that I refer to often.

                                2. seattledebs Jan 18, 2007 03:39 AM

                                  Now, do you mean a specific kind of pie that involves bananas and so forth? Or just a pie that is, well, better than sex?

                                  My pies are pretty up there, but I'm a fruit pie purist. Apple, peach, blackberry, blueberry, huckleberry. Let me know if you want a recipe.

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                                    daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 03:52 AM

                                    This is a specific pie, also sometimes referred in more religious circles as better than robert redford pie. If you care to share, I would always credit you when I make your blueberry pie.

                                  2. brekkie_fan Jan 18, 2007 03:37 AM

                                    I actually got a "Better than sex cake" from an acquaintance a long time ago. Here's what it says:

                                    Crust
                                    1c flour
                                    1 stick margarine, softened
                                    1/2c chopped nuts

                                    Blend together well and press into bottom of 13"x9"x2" pan. Bake at 375 degrees for 5-10minutes

                                    2nd layer
                                    1c Cool Whip (get 12oz container)
                                    1c powdered sugar
                                    1 package cream cheese (8oz)

                                    Mix thoroughly and spread on crust

                                    3rd layer
                                    2 packages instant pudding, any flavor (3-1/2 oz each)
                                    3 cups milk

                                    Mix thoroughly and pour onto first two layers. Chill.

                                    4th layer
                                    Top with remaining Cool Whip and more nuts as desired.

                                    I hope this gives you some direction. Good luck!

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                                      daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 03:50 AM

                                      This is similar to one I found online, I think that there must be something to it since it has popped up in several different places. Thanks!

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                                        brekkie_fan Jan 18, 2007 04:25 AM

                                        no problemo. glad my recipe is consistent with what you've been finding.

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                                        sashimi73 Jan 18, 2007 08:21 PM

                                        My grandmother used to make this with lemon pudding and call it "Lemon Surprise"; chocolate pudding would make it "Chocolate Surprise"...what a surprise she'd have if she knew what it's going by these days!!! I don't think I ever heard her say the word sex!

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                                          austx03 Jan 19, 2007 02:52 AM

                                          wow. I saw this and I had to reply...I had totally forgotten about this cake/pie. when I was young, we knew a woman, who we called Miss Bernice and she made this exact same recipe as you post up above, but she called it a pie. she would make it with Jello chocolate pudding, large amounts of Cool Whip and tons of pecans. my brother, sister and I would crack the pecans for her. thanks for posting this and reminding me of her and her smile.

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                                            brekkie_fan Jan 20, 2007 04:18 AM

                                            ya know, i think it's time to make some cake :)

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                                          melissad Jan 18, 2007 03:17 AM

                                          No, I have cake recipes from my grandmother's best cookbook... interested in those?

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                                            daintysharky Jan 18, 2007 03:48 AM

                                            I would love it. Have you tried it? What is your take on it?

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