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Blowout dinner for 10 people - where?

My challenge: Find the most luxe and over-the-top place for a private dinner for ~10 people. This group dined at Ame last year, and had a great time.

Where else can I send them in SF Union Square/Financial District that would compare with last year's meal?

I thought about renting the private apt. at the Clift, but their food is only "eh." This is a group that knows their food & wine.
Any suggestions would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

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    1. It's hard to beat Rubicon's wine list.

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      1. These come to mind-
        Kokkari- there is a great room in the cellar and the service is excellent for large parties. I was here for a big party and everyone had a great time.

        Coi- might be interesteing I know they have a private room.



        Myth- I know its not over the top but the food is really good, good wines and a nice private room.

        Sparrow- has nice rooms for private dining.

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        1. re: Lori SF

          A friend had a private dinner at Coi and really liked it -- I'm not sure, however, if it fits 10.

          1. re: Lori SF

            Masa is closed on Mondays, and the dinner has to be on a Monday in January. We had hoped to have it there, but they can't open for just 10 people. I will definitely give Coi a try!

            1. re: foodiegrl

              That's too bad - Coi is closed on Mondays too.

              1. re: The Dive

                Not to worry! Since Coi is so tiny, we may do a buyout. I have spoken to Ipe at the restaurant, and we may work something out.

                Thanks for all the recommendations!

                1. re: foodiegrl

                  I hope it works out -- I am a huge fan of the restaurant and Daniel Patterson.

          2. I'd second Rubicon. Boulette's Larder is another that will put together as elaborate a menu as you want. You'd have to bring your wine, though.

            1. Boulevard has a private room that fits 10-12 people.

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              1. re: Sebby

                We fit 22 in that room one time. I'd recommend no more than 12.

              2. Below is the account of the party we had at Sparrow in October. A great evening.


                1. Thanks for the recommendations! Rubicon will play host to our larger event later that week, so it's out, unfortunately.

                  I had completely forgotten about Coi & Sparrow. Boulevard & Myth will remain our standbys.

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                  1. re: foodiegrl

                    Several years ago, I attaended a dinner in the wine cellar at Farallon. I think that it can hold ten. Nice evening.

                    1. re: foodiegrl

                      What about Campton Place? I haven't been in quite awhile, but for some reason I thought they had a private dining room.

                    2. The Dining Room at the Ritz has a lovely private room that holds a max of 16, I think, and I imagine they'd accommodate 10.

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                      1. re: mspea

                        A few years ago, we had a very nice dinner for 14 in that private room. Very good food, excellent sommelier.

                      2. Gary Danko's also has a private dining room -- surprised no one has mentioned that yet -- and Quince has a "chef's table in the kitchen" (OK, it's really the lower [prep] kitchen & desert room). Both can seat 10, though Quince may be a bit crowded, but we've done it.

                        1. not sure if it has a private room, but you may want consider Michael Mina


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                          1. re: tierradelfuego

                            Yeah, I talked to them already. While they could seat a party of 10, and we'd have lots of space on a Monday night, they don't have any separate dining areas. Our group needs a separate area - the sake of the other diners.

                          2. San Mateo may be outside of your radius, but I recently hosted a dinner for 10 at Viognier. It takes a leap of faith to "get" a fine restaurant above a grocery store (but what a grocery store). They have the space (both private and in the main DR) to comfortably handle a group this size.


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                            1. re: neil

                              I LOVE Viognier. One of my first and best tasting menu experiences was there. Unfortunately, many of the guests are flying in from out-of-town and will be staying in a hotel near Union Square. If we were going to rent a motorcoach, we'd take people to Cyrus (this was actually discussed).


                              1. La Folie is another option...check it out.

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                                1. re: stromboli

                                  One of our hosts won't do La Folie (long history w/ the chef).

                                2. What about the chef's table at Quince? A meal you won't soon forget!