Dim Sum in Southern NJ (near Wildwood!?)
I think your culinary dreams may be a bit ambitious -- haven't seen anything Chinese above takeout level in Wildwood! There's a restaurant in Cape May called Cape Orient that serves Thai and Japanese dishes in addition to Chinese, according to their web site, but I don't have any first-hand knowledge.
Two restaurants in Wildwood that I do recommend are Marie Nicole (upscale New American), and Pacific Grille(New American also but more casual and less pricey). Am looking forward to trying the new Southwest/Mexican in town, Red Sky.
See you on the Boardwalk!